I thought so. That’s why you’re going to enjoy my podcast, SDC Presents: Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver, sponsored by SDC.com!
If you want to learn tips and tricks to have better sex and relationships, from having threesomes to navigating the waters of non-monogamy and polyamory, to discovering your kinky side, to exploring the ins and outs of BDSM play, come Seek, Discover, and Create with me today.
Each Thursday night, I’ll be bringing a new guest expert on my show to explore different themes, to really stimulate thought and discussion about some of the most important topics and issues revolving around sex, health and relationships. My goal is to provoke you to think about sex in a different way, to tackle all the most taboo questions about sexuality, to normalize sexuality and to empower you to experience your sexuality shamelessly, without fear, guilt or judgment.
Broadcast Date: 3/21/2019 at 5 PM PST / 8 PM EST
Are you in a non-monogamous relationship and want to learn strategies to overcoming conflict with your partners, as well as to avoid certain red flags and keep your relationship running smoothly? Listen to my latest episode with Diana Ryan!
Broadcast Date: 3/14/2019 at 5 PM PST / 8 PM EST
Are you single, on the prowl, and looking for expert dating tips to make your experience go more smoothly? Cheryl Besner and I take some of the mystery out of finding the right match for you, making the most of your first date and moving from first date to the early stages of a new relationship. Listen now to get some expert advice!
Broadcast Date: 3/7/2019 at 5 PM PST / 8 PM EST
Do you want to know what it’s like for a female director, producer and photographer behind the scenes of the adult entertainment industry? Join me with world-renowned erotic photographer and adult film producer, and host of the #1 adult industry podcast, Holly Randall Unfiltered. Holly has worked for top brands like Twistys, Playboy Plus, Digital Playground and Penthouse. Holly is going to help us explore that fine line between erotica and pornography, what it’s like to be a woman in charge on set in a male-dominated industry, and her perspectives about beauty, ethics and the industry. She also offers solid words of advice for women looking to make their mark in pornography and erotic photography.
Broadcast Date: 2/28/2019 at 5 PM PST / 8 PM EST
Are you interested in consensually non-monogamous relationships? Do you want to know what exactly polyamory is, and what different types of polyamorous relationships can look like? Are you curious whether or not polyamory can work for you, and how you can manage some potential conflicts to maintain a healthy poly relationship? Join me and my special guest Dr. Eli Sheff, PhD, researcher, expert witness, coach, speaker, AASECT certified sex educator, educational consultant and published author. We’re going to explore the various poly relationship types that you can have, how to set boundaries that work for everyone involved in the relationship, how to move into a polyamorous relationship dynamic with your partner, and the importance of polyaffective relationships to the emotional health of a polycule.
Broadcast Date: 2/21/2019 at 5 PM PST / 8 PM EST
If you’re curious about the best ways to navigate your first forays into the growing world of consensual non-monogamy (aka ethical non-monogamy), join me today with Dr. Liz Powell, a licensed psychologist who specializes in non-traditional relationships, and the author of the book Building Open Relationships.
We explore different kinds of non-monogamous relationships; how to start and maintain healthy and ethical non-monogamy with your partner or partners; and the best communication tips to prevent and resolve potential conflict.
Broadcast Date: 2/14/2019 at 5 PM PST / 8 PM EST
Are you curious about what a Hotwife is? Want to know the difference between cuckolding and hotwifing? Want to learn more about whether or not jealousy plays a role in a hotwife or cuckolding scenario?
Join me for a kinky discussion with Brenna and Brian from the podcast Front Porch Swingers. We’re going to get down and dirty with the intimate details of their unique relationship and explore how opening up your relationship to new erotic possibilities can improve your relationship and your sex life.
We also explore some of the dynamics of BDSM that contribute to Brenna and Brian’s unique relationship dynamic, the importance of female empowerment in their relationship and in the lifestyle, and the importance of honest and open communication in a relationship.
Broadcast Date: 2/7/2019 at 5 PM PST / 8 PM EST
Are you feeling thinking of experimenting with some BDSM but don’t know where to start? Or maybe you’re a more seasoned fetish player in search of some new techniques to try on your submissive partner?
If you want to explore the more sensual side of BDSM and start getting out your own kinks, join me with King Heff, a sexual enhancement product specialist from Charlotte, NC, the creator of Pink Heffs and Black Heffs and an expert in the art of sensual impact play.
King Heff is going to explain what to do when we’re first getting started with a new submissive, how to communicate and establish consent, managing the different elements of a BDSM scene, and some physical and psychological domination and obedience training techniques you can try on your submissive – right now!
Broadcast Date: 1/31/2019 at 5 PM PST / 8 PM EST
Do you want to know what it’s like to be part of an orgy? Are there rules to being in a group sex situation, or is it just a free-for-all? And with so many moving parts, how the hell do you keep track of everyone’s pleasure while making sure you have an unforgettable experience?
If you want to explore all of these in-depth questions about orgies, and turn your fantasy to reality (on your own or with your partner), join me with my guests Taara Rose and James, hosts of Sex Uninterrupted podcast on The Sexy Lifestyle Network.
We’re going to get personal with you about our own experiences with orgies, give you practical tips and advice for communicating with your partners, how to break the ice with everyone, and how to make sure everything is running smoothly. We’ll also discuss how to make sure you’re practicing safe sex, so that everyone can have a consensually non-monogamous bangin’ good time!
Broadcast Date: 1/24/2019 at 5 PM PST / 8 PM EST
The era of shameless sex has arrived, and it’s all about shattering social stigmas, exploring taboos and discovering the boundless possibilities of sexuality.
If you’ve been seeking a wealth of trustworthy information about sex, pleasure, relationships and health, our two major platforms SDC.com and The Sexy Lifestyle Network are becoming the new leaders to change the way adults think and educate themselves about their sexuality.
Together, we’re bringing you tons of content – podcasts, videos and articles -that cover every possible topic in the ever-changing sexual landscape, sprinkled with some enticing and relatable personal real-life experiences of our own.
In this special episode celebrating the second anniversary of Carol and David’s The Sexy Lifestyle podcast, Lexi Sylver (that’s me!) and Jean from SDC.com join a round table discussion about how we have joined forces with top sex, relationship and health experts around the world. We explore important subjects like threesomes, the erotic lifestyle, consent, double standards, bisexuality, and more taboos in this one-of-a-kind episode to honor the diversity and importance of sexual education.
Broadcast Date: 1/17/2019 at 5 PM PST / 8 PM EST
What is the true definition of a Soul Mate? Do you want to discover how to master your relationship and become a better partner? If you want to learn how to improve communication and intimacy as a couple, you’ll benefit from today’s podcast with the co-founders of Soulmates for Life, internationally renowned author and licensed clinician Dr. Jay, and his soul mate, master certified coach, Liseth.
With their expert guidance, we’re going to explore the science of soulmating, the importance of expressing honesty and communication in your relationship, and taking your love life to the next level.
We talk about the kinds of people and couples who might need a relationship coach, and when there are some red flags in your relationship that signal the need for coaching to improve the status quo.
Dr. Jay and Liseth also reveal useful strategies to overcome conflict, for times when you’re having a risky conversation with your partner and things explode or become difficult.
Broadcast Date: 1/10/2019 at 5 PM PST / 8 PM EST
Why is self-care one the fastest-growing wellness trends in the last few years? How is self-care so important and beneficial to your sexual, physical and mental health? If you want to know how to get into the habit of prioritizing yourself, even with a busy schedule, you’ll enjoy tonight’s podcast.
I’m joined by Dr. Megan Stubbs, a sexologist who specializes in sexual wellness, education and pleasure. We’re going to explore the different types of self-care and how they contribute to a healthier YOU, and how those benefits can spill over into having more positive relationships with others. We discuss the reasons why millennials seem to be so much more interested in self-care than previous generations, as well as who is most likely to engage in wellness practices.
With Megan’s wellness goal-setting tips and advice on what to do if you can’t stick to your goals or New Year’s Resolutions, you’ll be well on your way to a healthier mind and body in no time.
Broadcast Date: 1/3/2019 at 5 PM PST / 8 PM EST
What are the secrets to pleasing a woman sexually? Do you want to learn more about how to make a woman orgasm and squirt?
If you want to know what makes a woman cum, you’ll enjoy today’s podcast with “The Sex Architect” Marla Renee Stewart, professional sex educator, sex, intimacy and relationship coach, founder of Velvet Lips and co-host of The Sisters of Sexuality podcast on The Sexy Lifestyle Network. We’re going to help crack the code of the elusive female climax, debunk common myths about female sexuality, present lesser-known facts about women’s pleasure, and enhance your sexual confidence to become a better lover.
By answering questions like “what exactly IS squirting?”, “what are the different types of orgasms a woman can have?”, and “how much of a woman’s orgasm is mental versus physical?” we’ll also be examining how you can give a woman the utmost pleasure, in every which way.
Broadcast Date: 12/27/2018 at 5 PM PST / 8 PM EST
What are men REALLY thinking?
Do you want to know the truth behind sex, relationships and cheating from a male perspective?
If you want some insight into how men think about their sexuality, you’re going to enjoy today’s podcast with my special guests, Jamal Edwards and Rick “PolyRick” Broider, co-hosts of the Everything Sexy podcast, right here on The Sexy Lifestyle Network.
Jamal and PolyRick are going to share some of their personal experiences about polyamory and living a consensually non-monogamous lifestyle. We’re going to talk about the challenges that men experience within the female-driven swinger lifestyle, and offer some advice for men who want to start exploring and communicating more about their sexuality.
Broadcast Date: 12/20/2018 at 5 PM PST / 8 PM EST
Why are bisexual men stigmatized while bisexual women are fetishized in society and popular culture? Do you want to know why there’s such a double standard when it comes to male bisexuality?
If you want to know about commonly held misconceptions about bisexuality, you’ll appreciate today’s podcast with Angelique Luna, Certified Kink Aware Professional relationship & sex coach, educator, entertainer and advocate for sexual abuse survivors, and John Luna, entrepreneur, author, professional educator and sex, kink and relationship coach, who both host the podcast Living A Sex Positive Life.
Angelique and John are going to unveil the truth behind why bisexual men are often considered a myth and minimized by other subgroups, especially within the swinger lifestyle. We’re going to talk about the different challenges of being bisexual that men experience, and some practical advice for bisexual men who want to come out of the closet and tell their partners about their bisexuality.
Broadcast Date: 12/13/2018 at 5 PM PST / 8 PM EST
Are you interested in experimenting with BDSM? Do you want to add some kinkiness to your relationship but don’t know how and where to start exploring? If you’re curious to learn more about the ins and outs of BDSM, you’re going to love today’s podcast with sexuality educator Sunny Megatron, the host and executive producer of the Showtime original television series, SEX with Sunny Megatron, and co-host and producer of American Sex Podcast.
Sunny is going to talk about what BDSM is all about, the roles of a dominant and submissive, and how to start communicating and experimenting with your partner to discover what your kinks are.
We’re going to talk about how to enjoy BDSM while playing safely, the importance of consent and using safe words, what after care really is and how it works, and the potentially therapeutic benefits of BDSM play.
Broadcast Date: 12/6/2018
Are you curious about what it means to be monogamish? Do you and your partner want to explore opening up your relationship but aren’t sure where to start? If you’re intrigued about taking those first steps into the not-so-gray area between open and monogamous relationships, you’re going to enjoy today’s podcast with Dr. Jess, Toronto-based sexologist, best-selling author, award-winning public speaker and television personality.
Dr. Jess is going to share the best ways to help take you and your partner decide whether you’re ready to take things to the next level, and how to navigate the waters together once you get there. We’re going to talk about how to handle jealousy, the most effective communication strategies, creating ground rules and how to keep things running smoothly before, during and throughout your monogamish experiences.
Broadcast Date: 11/29/2018
How can you make your sex life more fun and creative? Do you want to know some tips and tricks to adding some kink into your relationship? If you’re looking for inspiration and creative strategies to try with your partner, you’ll love today’s podcast with Casey Carter, published erotic author, on-air personality, fetish lifestyle expert and brand ambassador for The Thruster by Velvet Co.
Casey and I going to share how you can best communicate your fantasies and kinks to your partner and inspire them to try new things. We’re going some tips and tricks you can start right now to spice up your relationship and your sex life, from foreplay to the bedroom to beyond. We’ll be covering everything from sexting, reading and writing erotica, using pervertibles, role playing and dressing up, and more exciting techniques you can add extra sizzle to your relationship and connect with your partner in new ways.
Broadcast Date: 11/15/2018
What should your pussy look like and taste like? Are you curious about how to have a better sex life, starting with keeping your pussy healthy, wet and satisfied? If you want to find out how to make good pussy even better, join me with Taylor Sparks, a certified expert in both holistic aromatherapy and human behavior, published author, erotic educator, and the founder of OrganicLoven.com.
Taylor and I are going to make you feel more confident about what your pussy looks and tastes like, and encourage you to examine why we think our pussies are not good enough. We’ll talk about why society and the media are bad for creating impossible expectations that pussy should smell like flowers, taste like fruit, and be constantly soaking wet all on its own, with no need for lubricant or any stimulation whatsoever. Tune in today for real pussy talk from the sexperts.
Broadcast Date: 11/8/2018
What’s the best way to have a threesome? Are you wondering how to find a third or a couple you can experiment with comfortably and safely? If you want to explore how to go from menage à trois fantasy to reality on your own or with your partner, join me today with Luna Matatas, sex and Pleasure Educator with over 10 years of experience teaching locally, internationally and online.
Luna and I are going to delve into the pleasures and challenges of having a threesome, from the perspective of a unicorn, rhino or Lucky Pierre, as well as from a couple’s point of view. We’ll explore how to have the best possible threesome experience, with tips and tricks on finding your threesome, breaking the ice, dealing with awkwardness and jealousy, and communication strategies to keep everything running smoothly. We’ll teach you that threesomes can be fun and fulfilling experiences – with the right partners and in the right scenarios.
Broadcast Date: 11/1/2018
Why do we perceive intimacy as a weakness, rather than a strength? Are you curious about why you might be afraid of getting intimate and truly connecting with your partner? If you want to discover how you can learn to open up to your partner and explore intimacy within your relationship, join me today with Dr. Nancy Sutton Pierce, health, intimacy and sexuality expert, founder of Conscious Living Sexuality and host of The Conscious Living Show on The Sexy Lifestyle Network.
Dr. Nancy is going to help us identify what’s holding us all back from wanting to – and letting ourselves – feel vulnerable – even with the people we love the most, and who we know love us unconditionally. We’re going to talk about how self-love and self-acceptance, and seeing vulnerability as a strength rather than a weakness, are paramount to allowing yourself to be vulnerable with your partner and explore intimacy within your relationship.
Broadcast Date: 10/25/2018
What do you actually know about the porn industry? Do you want to find out how adult entertainment is evolving to empower women? If you want to delve more deeply into how pornography can become more ethical and driven towards female pleasure, join me today with award-winning adult film stars and producers Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire, co-owners of Royal Fetish Films, here to share the insight and experience they’ve acquired after over 20 years in the industry.
Jasmine and King Noire are going to challenge what we think we know about porn, and what they’re doing differently to help steer the conversation about female sexuality in a more positive and empowering direction. We talk about how good porn can help create positive change within society about the importance of celebrating female pleasure, and the beauty of the female body. We cover important issues like combating sexism, racism and stereotypes within the porn industry, and what it means to create and promote ethical porn.
Broadcast Date: 10/18/2018
Are you a sex god or goddess? Do you want to find out how to become the master or mistress of your own sexual domain? If you want to discover how to have the most fulfilling orgasms and sexual experiences of your life, join us with the sex goddess and Master Manifestor herself, Parish Michelle Blair, Executive Producer of Parish Blair TV, to discover how to live your life as a sex god.
You’ll learn all about what being a sex god or goddess is all about, and how to bring more positivity into your life by manifesting and releasing judgment, and how many wonderful things can be achieved with focused masturbation practices and orgasmic gratitude. We’re going to talk to Parish about her journey as a Sex Goddess and Master Manifestor, and find out what her pussy can do!
Broadcast Date: 10/11/2018
Are you interested in opening up your relationship to new partners but don’t know how to get started? Do you want to learn the best ways to navigate the lifestyle as a couple or on your own? If you want to find out how to explore erotic dating, join us with Carol and David of The Sexy Lifestyle With Carol and David, the creators, founders and producers of The Sexy Lifestyle Network, to discover how to embark on your new erotic adventures.
You’ll learn the Dos and don’ts about how to go from being curious about the lifestyle to opening your relationship to experience new sexual possibilities with your partner. We’re going to talk about common misconceptions about swinging, the importance of communication with your partner, creating rules with your partner to enable your swinging relationship, how to handle jealousy, the ins and outs of consent, and what to do if you’ve had a less-than-positive experience in the swinging lifestyle.
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Stay Tuned for more uncensored sex talk with Lexi, and as always, stay Lexual, people.