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Kink Up Your V-Day Weekend with Some Lexi Tips…

February 14, 2013

Happy V-Day, everyone!

It’s that time of year again, when many of us who don’t celebrate Valentine’s Day are vexed by their friends’ astonishing influx of floral arrangements, trinkets, and lingerie (which, admittedly, is never a bad gift). I’m not opposed to romance or declarations of intimacy, but overall it seems rather artificial to do so on this particular day, given the “expectation” of telling the other you “luuurve” them.

Give each other sexual pleasure and celebrate Valentine's Day with some kinky sex

I’ve never been a fan of Valentine’s Day. In fact, you might say (nicely) that I find it cheesy, and not in a deliciously gooey nacho platter kind of way. I think it’s ridiculous that people feel the need to declare their love and spoil each other on ONE day a year, a day appointed by the media and commercial enterprises. What about the rest of the year?

So instead of celebrating V-Day in a conventional way, I have preached (without sounding preachy) a focus on the pleasures of the body, in spending all time and resources in indulging each other in a drawn-out kind of foreplay and focus on EACH OTHER’s pleasure. Instead of a box of chocolate, pick up some chocolate-flavored body paint and take turns writing obscene words on each others’ naked bodies and licking them off. Instead of roses, go to a sex shop together and pick out a toy or porn movie you can both enjoy later.

It really isn’t rocket science. Get creative. Let your baser instincts rule you. Spend lots of naked quality time together. Especially for those of you who want to put that spark back into the relationship, trying something new and fun – like a kinky sex position – can reconnect you in a much more meaningful way than flowers and a Hallmark card.

If you’re single and staying home tonight, spend this time pleasuring yourself… but instead of going for the home run right away, try teasing yourself to the brink first, several times, and be rewarded by an extra-powerful orgasm.valentines-day-vibrator-ecard-lexisylver

So, whether you’re spend some sexy time tonight and this weekend with your lover or solo, enjoy one of my erotic short stories and sex positions. Here are a few I recommend to kink up your evenings of pleasure:

Short erotic stories: All The Queen’s Men, The Diary of Mistress Penelope, Any Vixen Sunday: Morgan’s First Taste

Try these sex positions: The Upside-Down Double-Oh! 69, The Jigsaw Sidestraddle, The Crouching Tigress

Have a sexy night everybody! 😉


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Lexi Sylver

I’m a shameless sexcapader, author of erotic tales, sexual educator of taboo topics and alternative relationships, pleasure toy sexpert, and advocate for sexual freedom. My mission is to empower you to shamelessly explore your Lexuality, stripping away your inhibitions and fears, so that you can freely pursue the fulfilling sex life and relationships you desire — and deserve. As your Lexual guide, I’ll help you map out your own erotic journey by giving you the tools you need to better connect with your own mind and body, communicate your desires and needs with your partners, and thrive in your customized, authentic lifestyle. I’m known for my passionate style and inclusive approach, drawing from my own real-life experiences to educate, entertain, and inspire you, all while helping you discover the realm of infinite erotic possibilities that await you once you open your mind to them. Whether you’re indulging in my erotic short stories, getting sex and relationship coaching from me, joining my webinars and events, reading my articles and blogs, perusing the sex toys in my shop, or listening to my podcasts, I strive to stimulate you to think about your sexuality in a new light — freely and fearlessly. Dare to delve deeper and explore YOUR Lexuality.

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