Happy V-Day, everyone!
It’s that time of year again, when many of us who don’t celebrate Valentine’s Day are vexed by their friends’ astonishing influx of floral arrangements, trinkets, and lingerie (which, admittedly, is never a bad gift). I’m not opposed to romance or declarations of intimacy, but overall it seems rather artificial to do so on this particular day, given the “expectation” of telling the other you “luuurve” them.
I’ve never been a fan of Valentine’s Day. In fact, you might say (nicely) that I find it cheesy, and not in a deliciously gooey nacho platter kind of way. I think it’s ridiculous that people feel the need to declare their love and spoil each other on ONE day a year, a day appointed by the media and commercial enterprises. What about the rest of the year?
So instead of celebrating V-Day in a conventional way, I have preached (without sounding preachy) a focus on the pleasures of the body, in spending all time and resources in indulging each other in a drawn-out kind of foreplay and focus on EACH OTHER’s pleasure. Instead of a box of chocolate, pick up some chocolate-flavored body paint and take turns writing obscene words on each others’ naked bodies and licking them off. Instead of roses, go to a sex shop together and pick out a toy or porn movie you can both enjoy later.
It really isn’t rocket science. Get creative. Let your baser instincts rule you. Spend lots of naked quality time together. Especially for those of you who want to put that spark back into the relationship, trying something new and fun – like a kinky sex position – can reconnect you in a much more meaningful way than flowers and a Hallmark card.
If you’re single and staying home tonight, spend this time pleasuring yourself… but instead of going for the home run right away, try teasing yourself to the brink first, several times, and be rewarded by an extra-powerful orgasm.
So, whether you’re spend some sexy time tonight and this weekend with your lover or solo, enjoy one of my erotic short stories and sex positions. Here are a few I recommend to kink up your evenings of pleasure:
Have a sexy night everybody! 😉
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