Sex Advice, Sex Positions

Halloween Sex Position: The Hellraiser

October 31, 2018

Happy Halloween, Lexual people!

In the spirit of Hump Day, falling exactly on Hallow’s Eve, I bring you a new sex position to try tonight: The Hellraiser!

What it is

Erotic lap dance meets reverse cowgirl, with a devilish twist.

How to do it

This move is best done when your partner is in a sitting position.  Straddle their lap backwards with your thighs pressed together and between their open legs.  (You may want to wear heels or grip onto a chair or table in front of you to gain some height – test it out.)  Swivel your hips in slow, concentric circles as you move up and down the shaft of their dick / strap-on, all the way down and then back up again until only the head of their dick is inside you.  (You can do this for a long time before any penetration happens, to amplify the tease.)

As you increase your speed and intensity, slowly spread your thighs further apart, always moving your hips up and down in a continuously circular motion, much like a tornado.  Alternate your stance by spreading your legs and bringing them back together. The tightness of your thighs close together will add stimulation to your clit, your lips and your partner’s dick.

This will give you a better idea:

Halloween Sex Position: The Hellraiser - Lap Dance Meets Reverse Cowgirl | Lexi Sylver

Why it’s hot

Your partner gets to sit back and watch you torment them with your delectable pelvic movements as your derrière bounces in their face.  The change in movement from your basic up/down motions will stimulate both of you much differently, since you will feel their dick hitting your G-spot while treating them to a cyclonic ride.  Your partner’s hands will be free to do their own dirty work, rubbing your clit and playing with your nipples and breasts. Everyone wins, and the slow, passionate build-up will make for a feverish climax on both ends.

Bonus for you: Sexercise! This is one of the best thigh and ass exercises you’ll ever do. Especially if you’re wearing heels while you’re riding your partner…

Bonus for both of you: I confess, this is one of my go-to positions during hockey and football seasons, because I can enjoy the pleasure while my partner and I watch sports simultaneously. What can I say? I’m a multi-tasker.

How to kink it up

Start with a lap dance!

Halloween Sex Position: The Hellraiser - Lap Dance Meets Reverse Cowgirl | Lexi Sylver

If you want to really take control, tie your partner’s hands behind them, and prop up a mirror (if possible) in front of you so you can both see from different angles.  To maximize their pleasure, wrap your hand around the base of their shaft, squeezing slightly and turning in the opposite direction as your hips when you slide upwards on them.  Try tugging gently on their package, then move your fingers behind them to rub their perineum in small circles.  (Not everyone is into this, so make sure your partner is okay with this before you get too into it.)

This is also a great position for anal sex.

You can get your partner to play with your ass at the same time, using lubed-up fingers, a vibrator or a butt plug, and then you can incorporate their dick or strap-on dildo if you’re looking for deeper penetration.

And add some kinky bonus points if your partner’s hands are tied up… 😉

Let your devilish self loose, and keep the fire burning, baby!

Until next time, Stay Lexual and find me on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram!

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Lexi Sylver

Lexi Sylver is the Montreal-based erotica author of Mating Season and All the Queen’s Men. She enjoys having a kinky and unconventional lifestyle and sharing her stories and experiences with others. Lexi hosts and produces’s sexuality podcast, Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver. As an entrepreneur, advocate, educator, public speaker and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she journeys the world to attend travel events and conferences. She regularly contributes articles about sexuality and relationships to Pornhub’s Sexual Wellness Center, ASN Lifestyle Magazine, and her personal blog. As the Media Director for, the world’s largest adult sex education and swingers dating platform, Lexi collaborates with sexuality, health and relationship experts to provide reliable resources for those who seek it. In her work as an advocate, educator and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she travels frequently to conferences and speaks publicly at events like The Montreal Taboo Sex Show (Le Salon de l’Amour et de la Séduction). Lexi wrote and creatively produced many movies, series and scenes in the adult entertainment industry and was nominated in 2017 for an AVN award for Best Screenplay. She is a published erotic author with her new book, a collection of erotic short stories called Mating Season, now available. Her mission is to promote empowerment and education by guiding you to shamelessly explore your Lexuality!

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