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2019 in Review: Cannabis, Kink, Orgies and Butt Stuff

December 31, 2019
Strap-On Sex: Threesomes, Pegging, and More Lexi Sylver SDC Podcast

WOW! It’s my LAST episode of 2020! That’s definitely something to celebrate! I raise my glass full of bubbly to all of you, my fantastic guests, Lexual listeners and SDC. Thank you for making this year unforgettable in so many ways!

Tonight’s show highlights 4 of my top episodes about having hotter sex, with guests…

Sunnymegatron of American Sex Podcast, where we cover all things butt stuff. Have you been dying to try out some booty play? How is the prostate important for butt stuff? Funny butt puns? Does pegging make you gay? We are educated on how booty play is an equal opportunity employer: we can all try it, and enjoy it! It has nothing to do with your sexual orientation, with Sunny very correctly stating… “it’s just a body part”. For those who have prostates, they may find intense intense pleasure from anally stimulating it aka the “male G-Spot”. Exploring pegging, there is also the added element of differentiating penetration and different definitions of being dominant or submissive.

Cannasexual, or the High Priestess of Pleasure, takes us through mindfully combining sex and cannabis. Originally getting her start as a sex educator in sexual violence prevention; but after burnout, she wanted to focus on the pleasurable side of sex. Trying out her first cannabis products for sex, she experiences pain free sex for the first time in a decade: something that all vulva owners can benefit from. Embracing this curiosity for using plants and cannabis as an enhancer and healer for sexuality, we tap in deep.

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Sex Because joins me to talk intimately about their journey with BDSM, entering into a dominant/submissive relationship. Being a dominant woman in her waking life, Arienne found that she wanted to be submissive in the bedroom as a form of relief. Charlie wanted to explore his dominance, building trust and intimacy through this kinky relationship. These two psychotherapists tell us how often times what hurt us is what heals us, since many kinksters can feel conflicted with entering a kinky space due to past trauma. This is about taking those events into your hands, and having an active choice in taking back your power.

Taara and James Sex Uninterrupted give us all hands on Orgies: Who are orgies for? Should you have a threesome first? How can you prepare for an Orgy? Orgies are for everyone, whether you are in the lifestyle or not. James candidly gives us giggles in recounting the fantasy of wanting a threesome, but forgetting that pleasing two people at the same time takes much more effort than expected. Within the orgy and group sex realm, consent is the absolute first priority: just because it’s a group scenario does not give you permission to touch or do anything to anyone without their consent. Organizing orgies, group texts, glow sticks and more.. keep listening!

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Lexi Sylver

Lexi Sylver is the Montreal-based erotica author of Mating Season and All the Queen’s Men. She enjoys having a kinky and unconventional lifestyle and sharing her stories and experiences with others. Lexi hosts and produces’s sexuality podcast, Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver. As an entrepreneur, advocate, educator, public speaker and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she journeys the world to attend travel events and conferences. She regularly contributes articles about sexuality and relationships to Pornhub’s Sexual Wellness Center, ASN Lifestyle Magazine, and her personal blog. As the Media Director for, the world’s largest adult sex education and swingers dating platform, Lexi collaborates with sexuality, health and relationship experts to provide reliable resources for those who seek it. In her work as an advocate, educator and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she travels frequently to conferences and speaks publicly at events like The Montreal Taboo Sex Show (Le Salon de l’Amour et de la Séduction). Lexi wrote and creatively produced many movies, series and scenes in the adult entertainment industry and was nominated in 2017 for an AVN award for Best Screenplay. She is a published erotic author with her new book, a collection of erotic short stories called Mating Season, now available. Her mission is to promote empowerment and education by guiding you to shamelessly explore your Lexuality!

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