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L'Orage Club Montreal Masquerade Halloween Party | SDC | Lexi Sylver

Come Find Me at the Masquerade Halloween Party This Weekend

Welcome back to my playground, devilish fiends and friends.

This weekend, I’ll be at L’Orage Club Echangiste in Montreal, for an incredibly memorable Masquerade party.

So if you missed any of the Halloween festivities this year, or if you still have the appetite for celebrating Hallow’s Eve, this is your chance to get all sexy and masked up!

That’s right! Halloween’s not over!

For the Masquerade party, the evening dress code is mandatory and will be strictly enforced. Masks will be available at the door for those who didn’t anticipate the theme night. Here’s an idea of what you can and can’t wear to the party:

L'Orage Club Montreal Masquerade Halloween Party | SDC | Lexi Sylver

Lacy masks are acceptable (that’s probably what I’m wearing), sexy lingerie… really, just use your imagination!

Just please don’t come dressed up like this:

L'Orage Club Montreal Masquerade Halloween Party | SDC | Lexi Sylver

There’s a time and a place for certain kinds of costumes… and the Masquerade party is not a place for sexy zombies or mummies, or any of the more “festive” Halloween party gear you may have been wearing to your other events.

Think CLASSY when you’re getting ready for this party!

L'Orage Club Montreal Masquerade Halloween Party | SDC | Lexi Sylver

Glam yourselves up when you get dressed for the soiree, because we’ll be voting on the Best-Dressed couple that night – who will win a free all-inclusive trip, courtesy of SDC to the glorious nudist SDC Takeover in Cap d’Agde, France, in the Summer of 2019! I’ve been there (check out my blog on Lexi Does Cap d’Agde!), and absolutely loved it – and this is your chance to get there on your own! I’m getting chills just thinking about going back, which I very possibly will this year!

And in case you’re wondering, I WILL be part of the jury that will be deciding the fate of the lucky winners around midnight! And I won’t be bribed by your lusty promises – so make sure your costume says it all!

I’m waiting for you… Je vous y attend, les coquins!

And if you decide not to come and stay home in your PJs instead, listen to some of the past episodes of my podcast!

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Lexi

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Dr. Nancy Sutton Pierce on Intimacy and Relationships | Lexi Sylver Podcast

Intimacy and Relationships: Tonight’s Podcast with Dr. Nancy Sutton Pierce

Welcome back to my playground, Lexual fiends and friends.

Why do we perceive intimacy as a weakness, rather than a strength?

That’s what we’re going to talk about on the fourth episode of my podcast tonight!

I’ll be joined by Dr. Nancy Sutton Pierce, health, intimacy and sexuality expert, founder of Conscious Living Sexuality and host of The Conscious Living Show on The Sexy Lifestyle Network on Intimacy and Vulnerability: From Self-Acceptance to Relationships.

We’re going to have a deep chat about how you and your partner can learn to open yourselves up to exploring intimacy within your relationship.

A lot of us fear getting intimate and truly connecting with our partner, because we’re afraid of being in a vulnerable state and getting hurt.

With Dr. Nancy’s help, we’re going to identify what’s holding us all back from wanting to – and letting ourselves – feel vulnerable, even with the people we love the most, and who we know love us unconditionally.

Dr. Nancy Sutton Pierce on Intimacy and Relationships | Lexi Sylver Podcast

We’re going to explore the concepts of self-love and self-acceptance, and how we can all learn to see vulnerability as a strength rather than a weakness, and how that is paramount to allowing yourself to be vulnerable with your partner and explore intimacy within your relationship.

If you missed tonight’s or last week’s episode, you can still listen on iTunes and here.

Don’t forget to listen in tonight and every Thursday night at 5 PM PST / 8 PM EST on The Sexy Lifestyle Network, on Voice America.com. 

Until next time, Stay Lexual and find me on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram!

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Lexi

Photos courtesy of Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire

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Halloween Sex Position: The Hellraiser

Happy Halloween, Lexual people!

In the spirit of Hump Day, falling exactly on Hallow’s Eve, I bring you a new sex position to try tonight: The Hellraiser!

What it is

Erotic lap dance meets reverse cowgirl, with a devilish twist.

How to do it

This move is best done when your partner is in a sitting position.  Straddle their lap backwards with your thighs pressed together and between their open legs.  (You may want to wear heels or grip onto a chair or table in front of you to gain some height – test it out.)  Swivel your hips in slow, concentric circles as you move up and down the shaft of their dick / strap-on, all the way down and then back up again until only the head of their dick is inside you.  (You can do this for a long time before any penetration happens, to amplify the tease.)

As you increase your speed and intensity, slowly spread your thighs further apart, always moving your hips up and down in a continuously circular motion, much like a tornado.  Alternate your stance by spreading your legs and bringing them back together. The tightness of your thighs close together will add stimulation to your clit, your lips and your partner’s dick.

This will give you a better idea:

Halloween Sex Position: The Hellraiser - Lap Dance Meets Reverse Cowgirl | Lexi Sylver

Why it’s hot

Your partner gets to sit back and watch you torment them with your delectable pelvic movements as your derrière bounces in their face.  The change in movement from your basic up/down motions will stimulate both of you much differently, since you will feel their dick hitting your G-spot while treating them to a cyclonic ride.  Your partner’s hands will be free to do their own dirty work, rubbing your clit and playing with your nipples and breasts. Everyone wins, and the slow, passionate build-up will make for a feverish climax on both ends.

Bonus for you: Sexercise! This is one of the best thigh and ass exercises you’ll ever do. Especially if you’re wearing heels while you’re riding your partner…

Bonus for both of you: I confess, this is one of my go-to positions during hockey and football seasons, because I can enjoy the pleasure while my partner and I watch sports simultaneously. What can I say? I’m a multi-tasker.

How to kink it up

Start with a lap dance!

Halloween Sex Position: The Hellraiser - Lap Dance Meets Reverse Cowgirl | Lexi Sylver

If you want to really take control, tie your partner’s hands behind them, and prop up a mirror (if possible) in front of you so you can both see from different angles.  To maximize their pleasure, wrap your hand around the base of their shaft, squeezing slightly and turning in the opposite direction as your hips when you slide upwards on them.  Try tugging gently on their package, then move your fingers behind them to rub their perineum in small circles.  (Not everyone is into this, so make sure your partner is okay with this before you get too into it.)

This is also a great position for anal sex.

You can get your partner to play with your ass at the same time, using lubed-up fingers, a vibrator or a butt plug, and then you can incorporate their dick or strap-on dildo if you’re looking for deeper penetration.

And add some kinky bonus points if your partner’s hands are tied up… 😉

Let your devilish self loose, and keep the fire burning, baby!

Until next time, Stay Lexual and find me on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram!

Try more sex positions here.

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Lexi

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Cheryl Besner Pillow Talk Podcast featuring Lexi Sylver

Spooky Sex?! Listen To Me Tonight on Pillow Talk with Cheryl

Welcome back, Lexual people!

Tonight, I’ll be a guest on Cheryl Besner’s new podcast, Pillow Talk with Cheryl, on The Sexy Lifestyle Network (powered by Voice America).

I’m thrilled (get it? Thrilled? It’s kind of a little Halloween joke. No? Not funny? Not even a little chuckle? Ok, well, I tried…)!

The topic of Cheryl’s show tonight is: Don’t be spooked about having a great sex life!

I’ll be joining a panel with Dr. Michael Berry and Dr. Philip Morphew for an intimate conversation about how to explore your sexual appetites with your partner and how to be on the same page as your partner when it comes to talking about sex and your deepest desires.

Sometimes we want to fire up our sex lives, especially when you’ve been with your partner for a long time. But how do you broach that topic of discussion, which can often be very sensitive? And what do you do when your partner’s desires don’t align with your own?

Avoiding those conversations are not the solution to having a happier and more passionate sex life. How can you ever have the sex life you so want and deserve if you’re not willing to communicate your needs with your partner?

What are some of the keys to exploring new sexual ground together, especially if you’re new to having these kinds of conversations about sexuality with your partner?

If you’re looking for new ways to experience passion in your love life, whether you’ve been with your partner for a short period of time or for what seems like a damn eternity, you should definitely listen in tonight for our intimate discussion.

But if you happen to miss the show and want to listen, you can always access the recording on iTunes, Stitcher and Google Play, as well as on Voice America.

Pillow Talk With Cheryl featuring Lexi Sylver on the Sexy Lifestyle Network | Voice America

Click here to tune in to listen to Cheryl’s podcast at 8 PM EST / 5 PM PST!

And as always, this Thursday night (and every Thursday night), you can tune in for my podcast on The Sexy Lifestyle Network, SDC’s Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver!

More about this week’s show, coming soon!

Stay Lexual, friends and fiends.

XXX

Lexi

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Jet Setting Jasmine King Noire Royal Fetish Films | Lexi Sylver Porn Podcast

Real Porn Talk: Tonight’s Podcast with Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire

Welcome back to my playground, Lexual fiends and friends.

Let’s talk about PORN!

Tonight’s episode is an extra special one for me, on a personal level, because I used to work in the porn industry as a scriptwriter and creative producer.

If you don’t believe me, check out my IMDB page! (It’s not complete, and only shows credits on the movies and series I worked on, but not any of the productions that were released as individual scenes. But still, I think it’s pretty cool.)

I’ve invited award-winning adult performers Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire to join me for my podcast on Pornography: Empowerment and Ethics in the Adult Industry.

We explore the ins and outs of the porn industry (yeah, you know damn well that all puns are intended!).

We’ll be talking about female empowerment, the true meaning of ethical porn and what Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire are doing to revolutionize the adult entertainment industry.

Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire: Pornography and Empowerment Podcast | Lexi Sylver

Maybe I’m making them sound like porn superheroes, but I know firsthand bringing change to the mainstream, male-oriented and male-dominated adult industry is a massive challenge.

When I worked on the scripts for all these productions, I was instructed by my male superiors (in a male-run company, for male-centric porn) to emphasize male pleasure, the “money shot” or cum shot, which usually ended the scene.

The female orgasm, and shooting the production in such a way that empowered the woman, was not at all a consideration.

In my chat tonight with Jasmine and King Noire, you’ll get to hear about how they’re setting the bar high with their own productions for Royal Fetish Films

We’re going to cover what they’re doing to help steer the conversation about female sexuality in a more positive and empowering direction – which we know is no easy talk. We’ll talk about how good porn can help create positive change within society about the importance of celebrating female pleasure, and the beauty of the female body. We’re going to cover important issues within adult entertainment (and society as a whole) like combating sexism, racism and stereotypes, and what it means to create and promote ethical porn.

If you missed tonight’s or last week’s episode, you can still listen on iTunes and here.

Don’t forget to listen in tonight and every Thursday night at 5 PM PST / 8 PM EST on The Sexy Lifestyle Network, on Voice America.com. 

Until next time, Stay Lexual and find me on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram!

XXX
Lexi

Photos courtesy of Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire

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Stop Faking Orgasms | Sex Advice From Lexi Sylver

Stop Faking Orgasms! How “Fauxgasms” Can Ruin Your Sex Life

What’s the point in pretending you’re experiencing The Big O? You’re doing yourself and your partner more harm than good. Here’s why you shouldn’t fake orgasms – and how to start having real ones!

There are so many reasons that people fake orgasms.

They’re tired or want to get it “over with”. They’re distracted. They have too much on their minds. They don’t think they’ll get there physically. They’re too shy to express what they want. They don’t want to make their partners “feel bad” that they couldn’t make them cum.

For many of us with lady parts, chances are, we’ve been there. Our machinery is not as straightforward, and it’s not always easy to explain what it is that works for us, or we just know it’s not going to happen, or it will take a really, really long time to happen.

And there’s also the reality that some women have never actually had an orgasm before.

But what good will it actually do to pretend you’re achieving orgasm?

I’m arguing that it’s actually damaging to your partner and your sex life to fake orgasms.

By faking an orgasm, you’re falsely letting your partner think that whatever it is that they’re doing – which may not be altogether pleasurable for you – is good. And guess what? If their behavior and actions are rewarded by a “fauxgasm”, then they’re going to keep repeating whatever they did to lead to what they believe is a pleasurable experience for you.

So they will never actually learn what truly makes you feel good and can make you climax, thereby dooming you to a sex life that is not as fulfilling as it should be.

If you’ve been faking orgasms with your partner – stop RIGHT NOW! Try some of these techniques to really make the most of your sex life.

Don’t have sex if you’re actually not in the mood.

We all get tired and stressed out. If you want to have sex, try to get yourself in the right state of mind to relax and feel receptive to pleasure. But if you’re REALLY not feeling it, don’t force yourself to have sex with your partner; simply, don’t feel obliged to do it.

Figure out what you want sexually and what works for you.

One big reason people fake orgasms is because they don’t know what makes them cum. If YOU don’t even know what brings you to climax, how can you communicate that to your partner(s)? Masturbation is key. When you’re solo and feeling relaxed, experiment with yourself, using your hands and/or any sex toys of your choice. Go wild! Try new sensations, pressures, speeds, temperatures, and areas of stimulation. Once you discover what makes your toes curl and eyes roll back in your head, you’ll be closer to sharing that with your partner.

Let your partner watch you masturbate.

When you figure out your special formula to making yourself cum, show your partner! I find it so hot to watch my partner masturbate (whether they’re male or female). It helps me learn about what they like, the speeds and pressures they enjoy, and what their face and body look like when they’re at different stages of pleasure. This also helps make me a better lover, because it means that I’ll know what reactions to look for when it’s time for me to give them pleasure.

Communicate with your partner.

Communicate with your partner for better orgasms | Lexi Sylver

It’s not as easy for some people to talk about sex openly with their partner, but it’s extremely important to a satisfying sex life.

All of our bodies are different, and we all like different things. There’s no one user manual that works for everyone, so even if your partner has had a lot of experience, it doesn’t mean they know what YOU like, or exactly what you’re in the mood for at that given moment.

It’s one thing to talk about sex before you get started with playtime (I’ll be writing a whole other blog about that at another time).

But while you’re actually getting physical, you need to give your partner feedback throughout so they know what’s working and what’s not.

Keep in mind, however, that although your partner wants to please you, and would likely appreciate your feedback, be especially sensitive to them with the tone and words you use. They want you to feel good, and they want to know how to please you! And be patient! If they’re not getting it right away, try communicating it again.

If something they’re doing feels good, let your partner know. Saying things like “it feels so good when you lick my clit just like that,” or “I love it when you stroke my cock that way” while they’re in the act is not only the perfect way to guide them as to what feels good, but also makes for some stimulating dirty talk.

If you want more pressure, or you need them to go slower, or faster, or slip a finger in somewhere, gently communicate that to them. If they’re doing something that you really don’t like, be gentle about it and don’t make them feel bad. Maybe guide their hand to show them how you like it instead. Or suggest, “Can you try it like this?” “Can you lick me from side to side?” etc.

And when they start doing what feels good to you, based on your guidance, let them know “yes, that feels so good”, “yes, just like that,” etc.

It might be hard at first, but you’ll get used to it, especially when everything starts to feel really, really good.

Know that the orgasm isn’t the goal – pleasure is.

Take the focus off climaxing, and just focus on the pleasure. Remember the cliché: it’s not about the destination – it’s about the journey.

By taking pressure off yourself and your partner to achieve an orgasm, you can focus on just pleasing each other and enjoying each other’s bodies. Enjoying these moments and the intimacy between you will also encourage you to experiment with each other and learn more about each other’s reactions and responses.

If an orgasm happens, great. But it doesn’t have to!

Give yourself the real pleasure you deserve – and be the honest lover your partner deserves!

That’s part of how you can truly become a sex god or goddess.

So enjoy exploring your Lexuality and getting started on your path to self-discovery and the pursuit of real orgasmic experiences!

Until next time, Stay Lexual and find me on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram!

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Lexi

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Womanizer Premium Vibrator with Pleasure Air Technology | Lexi Sylver

Sex Toy Review: Womanizer Premium

Welcome back to my playground, Lexual people.

Last week, I launched my new sex toy shop! Though I’ll be continuing to add new toys as time goes by, to get started, I’ve curated the best quality collection of toys possible, beginning with some of the bestselling toys on the market.

Which, of course, includes the gamut of Womanizer products, including the brand-new Womanizer Premium.

And like all the other toys in my shop, I’ve tested it out thoroughly before deciding to add it to my online collection – pleasure guaranteed.

Here’s a bit about my sexperience using the Womanizer Premium.

How the Womanizer Premium works

The orgasms feel very different with the Womanizer than with any other sex toy or vibrator, because it uses patented Pleasure Air technology, delivering pressure waves to your clit that feel like oral sex. After I cum, I feel very satisfied, but less sensitive than if I just had a vibrator on my clit, as though I could keep having more orgasms.

I played with the settings to increase and decrease the pressure, and tried it on the new Autopilot feature, which changes the rhythm of the suction to make it feel more like someone else is controlling my pleasure. It also felt like my orgasms were coming out of nowhere, and super quickly. I could climax within a few minutes.

It was incredibly difficult for me to finally put down the Womanizer, because I was enthralled by how amazing every sensation felt. Super addictive!

What I loved most about the Womanizer Premium

The combo of the super soft silicone head and the intense pressure waves felt like a little mouth on my clit. The Womanizer is very lightweight and ergonomically easy to hold.

It’s also incredibly discreet, because it has Smart Silence technology, which means it stops working when it’s not touching your skin. It’s also not nearly as loud as a traditional vibrator, which means you can really focus on your pleasure, rather than the lawnmower-esque sound of your pleasure device.

New Womanizer Premium Vibrator with Pleasure Air Technology | Lexi Sylver

How to kink up your masturbation

I occasionally experimented with the clitorally-focused Womanizer while also penetrating myself, so I was getting dual vaginal and clitoral stimulation (which is something you could achieve also with the Womanizer Inside Out). You could also add an anal toy to your masturbation sessions with the Womanizer Premium.

The bottom line

Basically, the Womanizer feels like the best oral sex of your life – without any need to reciprocate. You’ll want to use it over and over again for orgasms on demand.

For a limited time, use code LEX10 at checkout to get 10% off all Womanizer products on my site!

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Enjoy exploring my new playground,

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Lexi

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Sexy James Bond Theme Party at L'Orage Club Echangiste Montreal

SDC’s 5 à Sex, Plus Sexy Bond Party at l’Orage Club This Saturday!

I’m getting hot just thinking about this weekend!

As of 5 PM Saturday evening, I’ll be with the SDC team at L’Orage Club Echangiste in Montreal, for SDC’s monthly 5 à Sex Meet and Greet.

I love these monthly meet and greets because they’re a low-pressure way for newbies and experienced swingers alike to mingle and talk and get to know each other, all within the sexy atmosphere and environment of L’Orage. I’ve talked before about why I love these meet and greets (check out this blog to read more about one of my experiences), and I highly recommend them for everyone – even if you’ve already been around the block within the lifestyle, so to speak. And it’s the perfect way to kick off the night’s festivities for the Sexy Bond party…

5 à Sex SDC Meet and Greet L'Orage Club

After the 5 à Sex, the club will be re-opening as of 9:30 PM, transformed into the Sexy Bond party theme for that night’s event! L’Orage will be featuring a special Belvedere vodka bar, in addition to the main bar, for all the martinis you can handle! Shaken, stirred, straight up… whatever your appetite desires!

For the Sexy Bond party, the evening dress code is mandatory and will be strictly enforced. For men, that means tuxedos and fancy suits. Women can wear evening gowns or a sexy, fancy dress.

Sexy James Bond Theme Party at L'Orage Club Echangiste Montreal

Definitely bring your A-game when you get dressed for the soiree, because we’ll be voting on the Best-Dressed couple that night – who will win a free all-inclusive trip, courtesy of SDC to the glorious nudist SDC Takeover in Cap d’Agde, France, in the Summer of 2019! I’ve been there (check out my blog on Lexi Does Cap d’Agde!), and absolutely loved it – and this is your chance to get there on your own! I’m getting chills of anticipation just thinking about going back!

Once you’ve gotten your drink on during the Sexy Bond Party, and you’re ready to get shaken and stirred yourself, you can head to the club’s sexy play areas and amuse yourselves with the other seductive clients.

I’m waiting for you… Je vous y attend, les coquins!

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Lexi

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Are You A Sex God or Goddess? Listen To My New Podcast!

Master your sexual domain with guidance from tonight’s guest Parish Michelle Blair.

My new podcast,  SDC Presents: Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver is officially debuting on The Sexy Lifestyle Network, powered by Voice America!

How to Become a Sex Goddess | Parish Michelle Blair | Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi SylverParish is the Executive Producer of Parish Blair TV, currently working on her newest project, The Diary of a Sex Goddess. In this week’s episode, she shares her unique journey to becoming a sex goddess and what it was like discovering her unique pussy powers.

Parish also talks about how we can bring more positive energy into our lives by manifesting, releasing judgment, listening to our inner thoughts and practicing orgasmic gratitude.

If you missed tonight’s or last week’s episode, you can still listen on iTunes and here.

Don’t forget to listen in every Thursday night at 5 PM PST / 8 PM EST on The Sexy Lifestyle Network, on Voice America.com. 

Lexi Sylver Podcast | SDC Presents: Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver | The Sexy Lifestyle Network

Stay Tuned for more uncensored sex talk with me next week, you Lexual fiend, you!

Thanks for your support and for listening!

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Lexi

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Breast Cancer Awareness Month | Marvel Comics | Lexi Sylver

Touch Yourself! Wonder Woman is doing it.

Forget “Think Pink”…

I’m going to go with “Touch Yourself” as my anthem for Breast Cancer Awareness month, all October long. And I think I have the support of some sexy female superheroes in saying that monthly self-breast exams are definitely a girl’s breast friend.

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I’m sure I’m not the only one who’s pretty sick and tired of seeing the color pink absolutely everywhere every single year, throughout the whole month of October, designating support for BCA Month. For me, this pinkification goes hand-in-hand with the commodification of breast cancer awareness… with seemingly every company selling something pink “in honor of” the month. I won’t do justice to all that, but if you want to learn more, check out this article about it from the New York Times.

I’m absolutely not saying don’t donate to the cause. But be aware of the charity or organization to which you are giving your money, to make sure they are handling it responsibly and in the way that they promise.

I think it’s crucial to highlight breast cancer awareness (and not just one month a year, either), as well as to help encourage regular self-breast exams and routine annual breast exams, and mammograms, with your regular gynecologist / physician.

Prevention and early detection are key. If you feel or notice any unusual physical changes to the shape, color, or texture of your breasts and/or nipples, go and see your doctor right away.

No matter how big or small your breasts are, you need to check them. Whether or not you’ve had a history of breast cancer in your family, you need to be aware of the early warning signs of breast cancer. And if you do have a family history of breast cancer, you are at higher risk and you should definitely take even greater precautions with your health and annual mammograms.

I highly recommend Bra Doctor’s Blog for a plethora of articles about breast health, how to perform a breast exam on yourself, and much, much more information that you should know about your breasts.

Here’s a great article about how to perform a self breast exam.

Do you examine your breasts frequently enough?

For more about your sexual health, find me on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram.

XXX
Lexi

Comic strip source via Comicsalliance.com

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