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Unleash Your Inner Slut | Taara Rose | The Spiritual Slut | Lexi Sylver SDC Sex Podcast

Unleashing Your Inner Slut

Welcome back to my playground, Lexual fiends and friends.

Why is the word SLUT soooo derogatory?

I’ve been slut shamed so many times throughout my life. It started when I was in high school – and I was slut shamed by people I considered to be friends. Some of whom were my BEST friends, too. So it especially hurt when it happened and when rumors spread around school about my sexual activities.

My sex life was really no one’s business but mine, but I gained a reputation as being easy and slutty. And you know what? I didn’t feel bad about it in the least. I OWNED the fact that I was (am) a slut.

But what this early experience did for me was helped me realize that so many people are ashamed of expressing their own sexuality. A lot of folks are insecure or scared to experiment with new things and people, or to become the sexual beings they might want to be.

So began my mission to educate people about sex – not only about the ins and outs of the wide range of sexual behaviors and activities that we can engage in and really enjoy, but also that you should feel free to express your sexuality however you choose, if you choose, without feeling shame, guilt, fear or judgment.

Which is basically the entire point of my podcast! That’s my mission.

That’s why I am especially excited to have my friend and fellow slut Taara Rose join me on tonight’s podcast! You may remember her from my previous podcasts with Sex Uninterrupted with her partner James.

But this time I got her all to myself!

Taara has been working on a program called The Spiritual Slut for a while, and recently launched her courses to help empower women to discover and express their sexuality.

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We’ll be getting personal about our own experiences with slut shaming, and how we became motivated to become sex educators and help people with their own journeys to unleashing their inner sluts.

Taara and I will also answer these questions:

  • Why is the word SLUT such a derogatory term?
  • How can we start saying “slut” in a positive way and remove the shame and stigmas imposed by society when it comes to sexuality and sexual freedom?
  • What’s up with society’s double standards when it comes to traditionally female versus male sexuality, and how you can connect – or reconnect – with your inner slut, whether you’re single or in any kind of relationship?
  • How can we get out of a sexual funk and battle feelings of insecurity, in order to free our mind and body to explore our sexual identity and slutty side with confidence and without judgment?

Listen tonight at 8 PM EST on The Sexy Lifestyle Network via Voice America.

If you missed tonight’s or last week’s episode of my podcast, you can still listen on: 
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Until next time, Stay Lexual and find me on FacebookTwitter, and Instagram.

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How to Be a Hotwife | Front Porch Swingers | Lexi Sylver SDC Sex Podcast

How to Be a Hotwife

Welcome back to my playground, Lexual friends and fiends.

What’s one of the most popular search terms when it comes to sexuality?

That’s right. “Hotwifing” and “hotwife” are more popular than ever before… but are these terms truly understood by the people who are searching for them?

So what exactly does it mean to be a hotwife? And how is it different from cuckolding?

There are a lot of misinformed folks who think cuckolding is synonymous with hotwifing, but Brenna and Brian are happy to teach us how to distinguish between them.

My first chat with Brenna and Brian of the podcast Front Porch Swingers went into some depth about cuckolding.

Listen to Hotwives, Cuckolds and Kinks: Popular Taboos Explained.

That previous episode might help prep you for tonight’s edition with this sexy hotwifing duo! Think of it as a perfect part 2 to our first conversation!

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Some of the questions that Brenna and Brian will be answering include:

  • What’s the difference between hotwifing and cuckolding?
  • How do the dynamics of a hotwife and stag relationship differ from other types of monogamous and non-monogamous relationships?
  • What’s the best way to recruit new playmates to join in on your hotwife dynamic?
  • How do you communicate with your partner and potential partners about your interests, boundaries and kinks?
  • What are some of features of a hotwifing relationship that can be applied to any relationship for partners who want to keep their desire alive?
  • What are some of the lessons they learned while getting started with their hotwifing relationship?
  • What advice is there for couples or individuals who are seeking to explore hotwifing for the first time?

Hear all the answers to these questions and many more when you tune in tonight!

Listen in at 8 PM Eastern on The Sexy Lifestyle Network via Voice America.

If you missed tonight’s or last week’s episode of my podcast, you can still listen on: 
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Until next time, Stay Lexual and find me on FacebookTwitter, and Instagram.

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Jealousy Kitty Chambliss Loving Without Boundaries Lexi Sylver SDC Podcast

How To Deal With Jealousy

Welcome back to my playground, Lexual folx!

I have been waiting a WHILE to go over this super interesting topic with all of you: THE GREEN-EYED MONSTER! Yes, I’m talking about jealousy (no, this time it’s not a weird sex euphemism)!

Jealousy affects all of us, and can happen whether you’re in a relationship or not. You can feel jealous of friends and siblings, of perfect strangers on the Internet…. anyone can fall victim to jealous feelings.

Today’s podcast is going to address a lot of things regarding jealousy, namely, how to cope with jealousy when you’re in a relationship – especially if you’re in some form of a non-monogamous relationship or a polyamorous relationship.

I first met Kitty Chambliss, the founder of Loving Without Boundaries (which is an amazing podcast as well as a fantastic Facebook group that I’ve really been enjoying being a part of), at Southwest Love Fest in Tucson, Arizona.

I attended her workshop on Surviving Jealousy and I loved it! I’m not by nature a jealous person, and in my non-monogamous relationship with my primary partner, I haven’t (yet) encountered any feelings of jealousy. However, her workshop did teach me to become more empathetic when it came to my partners experiencing feelings of jealousy and communicating them to me.

Jealousy is a NORMAL feeling! We can all be prone to jealousy under certain circumstances and at different points in your life, and with different partners (if that’s the case with you). No matter what kind of relationship you’re in, jealousy can rear its ugly head and cause you to feel uncomfortable, angry, sad, insecure, and a whole mess of other emotions you’d rather not have to be confronted with.

Whether you’re like me and don’t really experience jealousy but want to learn more ways to be empathetic towards your partner(s), or you DO experience jealousy and want to learn strategies on how to cope with those feelings, give today’s podcast a listen!

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So if you’re struggling with jealousy and finding it difficult to communicate those feelings to your partner(s), and want to know how you can successfully cope with jealousy and maintain a healthy relationship, tune in tonight!

We’re going to explore what jealousy is all about, and the healthy ways of coping with jealousy and being honest with your partner(s), no matter what kind of relationship you’re in. We’ll talk about healthy strategies for coping with and expressing your jealousy constructively rather than destructively, how to manage your jealousy if/when it arises, and amazing techniques to help you live with persisting jealousy.

So tune in tonight at 8 PM Eastern Time on The Sexy Lifestyle Network via Voice America!

If you missed tonight’s or last week’s episode of my podcast, you can still listen on: 
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Until next time, Stay Lexual and find me on FacebookTwitter, and Instagram.

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How To Release Your Inner God / Goddess

Welcome back to my playground, Lexual fiends and friends!

Cheryl Besner recently invited me back on her show, Pillow Talk With Cheryl, along with Dr. Philip Morphew.

We talked openly and honestly about how to release your inner god / goddess. I wasn’t expecting to get so deep, but the episode flowed soooo well! This episode is really something to listen to – and pretty different from the ones you’ve listened to on my own podcast, Seek, Discover, Create.

Give it a listen here:

Episode Description: Do you ever feel that there is a lion within your soul that is ready to roar? Do you hear your inner voice whispering “there is so much more of me that I want to explore and express”? Are you ready to unleash your power and step into the Goddess/God world that is waiting for you? Today’s intimate conversation is about discovering the Divine Godliness in each of us. Join me and Lexi Sylver as we share how you can release your inner God / Goddess.

You can also check out the episode directly on Voice America’s Variety Network.

Until next time, Stay Lexual and find me on FacebookTwitter, and Instagram.

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Lexi Sylver LGBTQIA Pride Month

Happy Pride Month!

Welcome back to my playground, Lexual folx!

Are you feeling proud of who you are? You should be!

No matter your sexual orientation and gender and how you choose to express and explore them, you should feel comfortable to embrace who you are!

Western society (and mostly the whole world, let’s be honest) is antiquated when it comes to giving others the space, respect and laws for folx in the LGBTQIA+ community to live our lives in away that we should be free to do!

Personally, I identify as a pansexual, kinky cis-gender female in an ethically non-monogamous relationship.

And no, I’m NOT attracted to pans! 😉

There is so much to learn about the incredible folx in the LGBTQIA+ community. I learn more and more every day. An incredible resource for me has been Queer Sex Ed, a podcast and website devoted to education people about inclusive and comprehensive sexual education. I highly recommend it.

If you are straight (meaning you identify as heterosexual), then it’s ever so important for you to be an ally. To do that, it’s important to respect the fact that Pride is a time when individuals within the LGBTQ+ community are coming together to celebrate their sexuality and their gender. So if you’re straight, don’t take the spotlight away from those who are expressing themselves. This is about all of us lesbian, gay, bisexual, pansexual, transgender, questioning, queer, intersex, and asexual folx (to name a few!) who are all too often discriminated against for the way we feel about ourselves, our bodies, our minds, and our sexuality.

I acknowledge that as a cis woman who is pansexual, I have it a lot easier than some of the other folx in our community, because it’s WAY more socially acceptable to be a cis female who has an open sexuality than it is for others – which is TOTALLY unfair. So I try to use my privilege for good, to help educate about gender and sexuality and identity, to fight for everyone to have equal human rights, so we can all live our lives however we so choose.

No one should have the right to control what we can and can’t say and do, who we can love, and how we feel in our own bodies.

No matter your gender and sexuality, or how you choose (or not) to express them:

  • Be respectful, ALWAYS.
  • Don’t yuck someone else’s yum! Just because someone might be into something you’re not, does not give you the right to judge them! Live and let live.
  • Never assume someone’s gender. If you don’t know, then you can respectfully ask them, “what are your preferred pronouns?”
  • USE an individual’s proper pronouns!!!!!
  • Support the LGBTQIA community by buying from queer shops, employing queer-identified people, and speaking up if you hear people making insensitive comments about someone’s gender and/or sexuality.
  • Educate yourself. There is a lot to know about gender identity and sexual identity. Don’t assume you know everything!

Happy Pride Month, Lexual folx!

Until next time, Stay Lexual and find me on FacebookTwitter, and Instagram.

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Charlie and Arienne SexBecause BDSM Lexi Sylver SDC Podcast

BDSM: Mind, Body and Kink

Welcome back to my playground, my Lexual fiends and friends.

Are you ready to get kinky with me?

Tonight, we’re talking about one of my favorite topics: BDSM.

Let’s further your knowledge about BDSM by covering some of the questions you sent me after my last two interviews with Sunny Megatron and King Heff about BDSM.

I highly recommend listening to these episodes to give you a slightly more well-rounded look into the kinky lifestyle:

Exploring BDSM: Kink, Sex, Consent and Safety (with Sunny Megatron)

The Art of Sensual Impact Play: From Consent to After Care (with King Heff)

In tonight’s episode, I invited a fantastic duo, Charlie and Arienne Williams of SexBecause, who are both clinical practicioners as well as kinksters themselves! So they have a unique background to be able to speak about their personal experiences as well as the more in-depth insight into the psychology of BDSM.

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So if you’re curious about kink and BDSM, and want to know why some kinky folks enjoy BDSM so much, you definitely need to listen to this podcast!

Charlie and Arienne reveal their personal experiences with BDSM, and apply their clinical knowledge to our discussion about what a healthy dominant/submissive and/or master/slave relationship looks like, negotiating boundaries and establishing consent with your partner, and what after care can look like for different people in different scenarios.

We’re going to help you discover more about the BDSM lifestyle, and discuss why it can be therapeutic for some people. (It’s not a replacement for therapy, but it can have therapeutic qualities for individuals who are in healthy dominant/submissive and/or master/slave relationships.)

Charlie and Arienne also offer some unique tips and tricks to incorporate kinky play in your own sex life, as well as how to kink it up a notch when the novelty of your BDSM play starts to wear off a bit.

So tune in to join us as we shatter some crucial myths behind the kink!

Listen to my podcast LIVE at 8 PM EST on The Sexy Lifestyle Network!

If you missed tonight’s or last week’s episode of my podcast, you can still listen on: 
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Until next time, Stay Lexual and find me on FacebookTwitter, and Instagram.

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Ashley Manta CannaSexual Lexi Sylver SDC Podcast Cannabis Sex

Sex and Cannabis: Enhance Your Sex Life

Welcome back to my playground, Lexual people!

I can’t believe May is almost over and we’re on the cusp of Summer! Can you feel that? That’s your sex drive kicking into high gear… it’s Mating Season!!!

Which, by the way, is the title of my upcoming book / collection of short erotic stories! Oh yessssss, don’t you worry. I’ll be giving you all the juicy details very, very soon, you wonderful perverts.

In the meantime… let’s talk about my steamy new podcast that you NEED to listen to – whether you’re already incorporating cannabis into your sex life or not!

Since I started my podcasting journey (so, since October) I have been receiving an inordinate amount of questions from all of you when it comes to how to use cannabis to spice up your sex life.

Since I’m not an expert in all things cannabis, I enlisted the help of THE expert – THE CannaSexual® Ashley Manta, professional sex educator and coach!

Incidentally, she was also named America’s High Priestess of Pleasure by Sexual Health Magazine… and does she EVER live up to that designation!

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So if you’re curious about cannabis and want to know how you can use cannabis products to amp up your sex life, you should definitely tune in and listen to my discussion with Ashley!

We’ll talk about:

  • How cannabis can be effective at enhancing your sexual experiences
  • Responsible ways to mix cannabis with sex
  • How to attain new heights of ecstasy by using cannabis products for smoking, vaping, ingesting or as a lubricant during sex and masturbation
  • How cannabis can be used to alleviate anxiety and some kinds of sexual pain (such as endometriosis, vaginismus, and vulvodynia)
  • How cannabis can potentially make orgasms more readily accessible and help with difficulties in sexual arousal
  • The importance of establishing consent and communicating with your partner about using cannabis before and during sex.
  • The best and safest ways to start your experimentation with using CBD and THC products for sexual use.

So even if you decide not to try using cannabis for sexual purposes, and just for recreational use, Ashley talks about the chemistry behind the flower, the best ways to use it in order to achieve the effects you’re looking for, dosage information and much more!

Listen to our steamy chat tonight at 5 PM PST / 8 PM EST on The Sexy Lifestyle Network!

If you missed tonight’s or last week’s episode of my podcast, you can still listen on: 
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Until next time, Stay Lexual and find me on FacebookTwitter, and Instagram.

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Swinging Downunder Travel Lexi Sylver SDC Podcast

Swinging Around The World

Welcome back to my playground, my fellow (and prospective) globetrotting friends and fiends!

I’ve been doing a lot of traveling lately, and I’ll be doing even more adventuring within the lifestyle this Summer. I’ll be heading to Italy and France for some European sexcapades. (Don’t worry… I’ll keep you all in the know as I explore new things and new people.)

So it’s super convenient for me to have just interviewed my new Aussie friends Cate and Darrell, the hosts and producers of the podcast Swinging Downunder!

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So if you’re a swinger who loves to travel, and/or you want to know what the swinger lifestyle is like in other countries around the world, get ready to be inspired with wanderlust when you listen to tonight’s episode of Seek, Discover, Create!

Cate and Darrell join me to share some of their sexy globetrotting experiences, and talk about what it’s like to live in Singapore!

Despite the fact that I know that sex is a taboo topic virtually everywhere in the world, I was still surprised to learn some of the ways in which sexuality is portrayed and viewed in different countries and cultures, and the ways in which women are treated differently. Cate and Darrell share some of the experiences they have had trying to educate people they meet about their body, removing feelings of shame that are associated with the expression of sexuality, and also about what the meaning of consent is, especially within a group play situation.

In this episode, we’re going to talk about what it’s like to be a traveling swinger, how people explore their sexuality in different places around the globe, and how you can make the most of your swinger adventures as you explore new travel destinations.

Plus, you’ll learn interesting facts about international travel tips for when you’re feeling kinky and looking to connect with other like-minded people, how to find other swingers as you travel, and much more.

So listen to tonight’s episode at 8 PM EST on The Sexy Lifestyle Network via Voice America!

If you missed tonight’s or last week’s episode of my podcast, you can still listen on: 
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Until next time, Stay Lexual and find me on FacebookTwitter, and Instagram.

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Lexi Sylver ASN Lifestyle Magazine Swingers

I’m one of ASN Lifestyle Magazine’s Influential Women in the Lifestyle!

Welcome back to my playground, Lexual fiends and friends.

I am sooooooooooooo excited to announce that ASN Lifestyle Magazine has selected me as one of 2019’s Most Influential Women in The Lifestyle!

It’s hard to believe that ASN Lifestyle chose me for their October 2019 issue, in addition to some of the most empowering women I’ve met so far in the swinger lifestyle.

I knew 2019 was going to be a year filled with accomplishments, and I like to see this as being one more notch in my belt.

Thank you all for your love and support in helping me make everything I’ve done so far possible!

Until next time, Stay Lexual and find me on FacebookTwitter, and Instagram.

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Talking About the Swinger Lifestyle on CJAD’s Passion with Dr. Laurie Betito

Welcome back to my playground, Lexual people.

Last night I was a guest on Dr. Laurie’s radio show on CJAD 800!

She invited me to talk about what it means to be in the swinger lifestyle, how to explore different kinds of consensual non-monogamy, the difference between polyamory and non-monogamy, what it’s REALLY like inside a swingers club, as well as tips for talking to your partner about being non-monogamous!

In case you missed it, listen in the player below or check it out directly on Soundcloud.

Until next time, Stay Lexual and find me on FacebookTwitter, and Instagram.

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