Sex Advice, Sex Positions

Position of the Week: The Reverse Gliding Grasshopper

August 2, 2009

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What it is:
A sultry variation of the Reverse Cowgirl that is super G-spot friendly.

How to do it:
Have your man lie down on his back and straddle him backwards… except instead of keeping your knees to the outsides of his legs, bring them to the inside.  His thighs should be resting on top of your calves and you should be leaning more forward then if you were straddling his legs on the outside of him.  Hold on to his ankles or calves for leverage as you rock yourself back and forth, and up and down, on him.  Alternate by having him pump up and down slightly in rhythm with your rocking to increase speed or depth of penetration.  You can also try leaning back with your hands on either side of his chest while lifting your hips up and down on him so he can rove his hands over your body.

Why it’s hot:
Like the benefits of the Reverse Cowgirl, your man gets a sexy rear view of your assets while you stimulate the hell out of your G-spot.  Since your legs are locked in towards the inside instead of out, you can lift yourself up higher off of him and he can hoist you up with his pelvis too, increasing the depth of penetration.  You can lean more or less of your weight forward while gripping onto his legs, depending on the angle and depth you prefer.  Plus, by pressing your thighs close together, you can increase the tightness of entry for him.

How to kink it up:
Since he may not be able to reach his arms around your hips to access your clit (unless you’re leaning back over him), try doing it yourself instead.  For extra credit, do it in front of a mirror (cameras are good too), so he can witness the action from both front and back.  Pinch your nipples, grab your breasts, and let loose.  If you have very long hair, let him pull it back at times to arch your back and act as a sort of restraint.  Since your rear is the main attraction, try doing this position while wearing a garter belt with thigh-high stockings (no panties)… very, very hot!  This is your time to feel and look like a porn star… but you know your orgasm will actually be real!

See you Wednesday for my latest erotic story.  Have a sexy weekend.


Lexi Sylver

Lexi Sylver is the Montreal-based erotica author of Mating Season and All the Queen’s Men. She enjoys having a kinky and unconventional lifestyle and sharing her stories and experiences with others. Lexi hosts and produces’s sexuality podcast, Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver. As an entrepreneur, advocate, educator, public speaker and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she journeys the world to attend travel events and conferences. She regularly contributes articles about sexuality and relationships to Pornhub’s Sexual Wellness Center, ASN Lifestyle Magazine, and her personal blog. As the Media Director for, the world’s largest adult sex education and swingers dating platform, Lexi collaborates with sexuality, health and relationship experts to provide reliable resources for those who seek it. In her work as an advocate, educator and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she travels frequently to conferences and speaks publicly at events like The Montreal Taboo Sex Show (Le Salon de l’Amour et de la Séduction). Lexi wrote and creatively produced many movies, series and scenes in the adult entertainment industry and was nominated in 2017 for an AVN award for Best Screenplay. She is a published erotic author with her new book, a collection of erotic short stories called Mating Season, now available. Her mission is to promote empowerment and education by guiding you to shamelessly explore your Lexuality!

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