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This Saturday: Join me at SDC’s 5 à Sex at l’Orage Club + Foam Party!

August 17, 2018
L'Orage Club Montreal Foam Party | Lexi Sylver

Are you ready to get Lexual this weekend?!

Come find me this Saturday night at SDC’s 5 à Sex at L’Orage Club in Montreal!

At my first EVER 5 à Sex many, many moons ago as a “newbie“, I was pleasantly overwhelmed by how many incredible and open-minded people I met in one night.

It was also my first time at l’Orage Club – a wondrously sexy place I had always dreamed about but never knew existed in Montreal.

I walked into the club alone, tingling with nervousness and anticipation, not knowing what to expect.

SDC 5 a Sex at l'Orage Club Montreal | Lexi Sylver

I had been invited to the 5 à Sex by a good friend of mine at SDC, to whom I had confessed my hunger to explore the erotic dating lifestyle.

I saw this friend of mine immediately when I walked in, and he instantly made me feel at ease. I could feel myself unwind as he introduced me to dozens of beautiful, smiling people, who were so eager to accept me into the community. And everyone was so respectful!

Intrigued about their relationships and personal interests, I asked everyone a million questions, trying to understand more about what had drawn everyone into the lifestyle.

Although they were a diverse bunch, with different careers, ages, backgrounds, and sexual interests, they all had one thing in common: their desire to connect with and explore with others who shared their open-mindedness.

I would have thought for sure – as I since have heard many “newbies” say – that being at a swingers club (versus a “regular” nightclub), one might expect to be touched and groped incessantly by sex fiends who were trying to grope them.

But never have I felt so respected! Everyone asked permission before touching me, even if it was just another woman wanting to squeeze my ass playfully. Consent was of the utmost importance. I was almost shocked by how the concepts of respect and consent were universally practiced by all the patrons, where they do not seem to be so easily understood elsewhere in society.

Truly, for me, this was a shining example of the respectful way others should be treated, and a wonderful indication that I could truly feel safe in this environment, whether I was exploring as one half of a couple or as a single woman.

And because of this level of comfort and safety I felt with the other patrons, and the fact that there were many members of the l’Orage staff surveying the playroom areas to ensure everyone was behaving in accordance to the club’s rules of respect and consent, that I felt completely liberated.

The goal of SDC‘s 5 à Sex is not just for play! It’s the perfect chance for those who are new to the lifestyle, new to l’Orage Club, or simply curious about what it’s all about, to come and explore at their own leisure, in a safe environment, and ask more experienced patrons about their own experiences.

I’ll be there – so don’t be shy – join us!

Following the 5 à Sex party, l’Orage will be hosting another epic Foam Party (which is also happening Friday night)!!! You’d better believe I’m not going to miss it! And neither should you…

L'Orage Club Montreal Foam Party | Lexi Sylver

See you there!




Lexi Sylver

I’m a shameless sexcapader, author of erotic tales, sexual educator of taboo topics and alternative relationships, pleasure toy sexpert, and advocate for sexual freedom. My mission is to empower you to shamelessly explore your Lexuality, stripping away your inhibitions and fears, so that you can freely pursue the fulfilling sex life and relationships you desire — and deserve. As your Lexual guide, I’ll help you map out your own erotic journey by giving you the tools you need to better connect with your own mind and body, communicate your desires and needs with your partners, and thrive in your customized, authentic lifestyle. I’m known for my passionate style and inclusive approach, drawing from my own real-life experiences to educate, entertain, and inspire you, all while helping you discover the realm of infinite erotic possibilities that await you once you open your mind to them. Whether you’re indulging in my erotic short stories, getting sex and relationship coaching from me, joining my webinars and events, reading my articles and blogs, perusing the sex toys in my shop, or listening to my podcasts, I strive to stimulate you to think about your sexuality in a new light — freely and fearlessly. Dare to delve deeper and explore YOUR Lexuality.


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