Sex Advice, Sex Positions

Position of the Week: the Jigsaw Sidestraddle

June 7, 2009

Welcome back to the newest installment of the Position of the Week!
Be prepared to implement this move– it’s a hot way to sexperiment while increasing your intimacy.

The Jigsaw Sidestraddle

How to do it: As she lies on her side facing you, straddle her bottom leg while she places her top leg around your waist.  You should be completely intertwined, fitting together like two puzzle pieces.

Why it’s awesome: The friction of your bodies being so closely pressed together feels fantastic– especially for her.  He can grab onto her ass as he thrusts.  For a tighter squeeze, have her clench her outside thigh against your hips.  For deeper access, he can raise your leg up higher.  (If you’re a very flexible diva, you can bring your leg up towards your shoulder.)

How to kink it up:

If your partner is game, this position if great to experiment with some rear-entry action.  DO ask first to ensure they are comfortable, otherwise the moment could get very awkward!  Lube up your fingers and start just by rubbing the rim of the butt hole.  If this elicits a good reaction, start to insert one digit inside, slowly.  Add fingers/increase depth as desired.  (Wash up well after!)

AND/OR

For the men: Instead of conventional in-and-out thrusting, you can try to slowly swivel your hips in circles, grinding against her clit and rubbing her G-spot just the right way.

For the ladies: Reach around behind his balls (you can grab/rub/tug those too) and rub his perineum in a circular motion or just tapping it in rhythm with his thrusts.

Be sure to add this one to your TO-DO list!

If you have a position you’d like to share with everyone, let me know.

Have a sexy week, and see you Wednesday for another erotic short story!

Lexi

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Lexi Sylver

I’m a shameless sexcapader, author of erotic tales, sexual educator of taboo topics and alternative relationships, pleasure toy sexpert, and advocate for sexual freedom. My mission is to empower you to shamelessly explore your Lexuality, stripping away your inhibitions and fears, so that you can freely pursue the fulfilling sex life and relationships you desire — and deserve. As your Lexual guide, I’ll help you map out your own erotic journey by giving you the tools you need to better connect with your own mind and body, communicate your desires and needs with your partners, and thrive in your customized, authentic lifestyle. I’m known for my passionate style and inclusive approach, drawing from my own real-life experiences to educate, entertain, and inspire you, all while helping you discover the realm of infinite erotic possibilities that await you once you open your mind to them. Whether you’re indulging in my erotic short stories, getting sex and relationship coaching from me, joining my webinars and events, reading my articles and blogs, perusing the sex toys in my shop, or listening to my podcasts, I strive to stimulate you to think about your sexuality in a new light — freely and fearlessly. Dare to delve deeper and explore YOUR Lexuality.

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