I can’t believe May is almost over and we’re on the cusp of Summer! Can you feel that? That’s your sex drive kicking into high gear… it’s Mating Season!!!
Which, by the way, is the title of my upcoming book / collection of short erotic stories! Oh yessssss, don’t you worry. I’ll be giving you all the juicy details very, very soon, you wonderful perverts.
In the meantime… let’s talk about my steamy new podcast that you NEED to listen to – whether you’re already incorporating cannabis into your sex life or not!
Since I started my podcasting journey (so, since October) I have been receiving an inordinate amount of questions from all of you when it comes to how to use cannabis to spice up your sex life.
Since I’m not an expert in all things cannabis, I enlisted the help of THE expert – THE CannaSexual® Ashley Manta, professional sex educator and coach!
Incidentally, she was also named America’s High Priestess of Pleasure by Sexual Health Magazine… and does she EVER live up to that designation!
So if you’re curious about cannabis and want to know how you can use cannabis products to amp up your sex life, you should definitely tune in and listen to my discussion with Ashley!
We’ll talk about:
How cannabis can be effective at enhancing your sexual experiences
Responsible ways to mix cannabis with sex
How to attain new heights of ecstasy by using cannabis products for smoking, vaping, ingesting or as a lubricant during sex and masturbation
How cannabis can be used to alleviate anxiety and some kinds of sexual pain (such as endometriosis, vaginismus, and vulvodynia)
How cannabis can potentially make orgasms more readily accessible and help with difficulties in sexual arousal
The importance of establishing consent and communicating with your partner about using cannabis before and during sex.
The best and safest ways to start your experimentation with using CBD and THC products for sexual use.
So even if you decide not to try using cannabis for sexual purposes, and just for recreational use, Ashley talks about the chemistry behind the flower, the best ways to use it in order to achieve the effects you’re looking for, dosage information and much more!
Welcome back to my playground, my fellow (and prospective) globetrotting friends and fiends!
I’ve been doing a lot of traveling lately, and I’ll be doing even more adventuring within the lifestyle this Summer. I’ll be heading to Italy and France for some European sexcapades. (Don’t worry… I’ll keep you all in the know as I explore new things and new people.)
So it’s super convenient for me to have just interviewed my new Aussie friends Cate and Darrell, the hosts and producers of the podcast Swinging Downunder!
So if you’re a swinger who loves to travel, and/or you want to know what the swinger lifestyle is like in other countries around the world, get ready to be inspired with wanderlust when you listen to tonight’s episode of Seek, Discover, Create!
Cate and Darrell join me to share some of their sexy globetrotting experiences, and talk about what it’s like to live in Singapore!
Despite the fact that I know that sex is a taboo topic virtually everywhere in the world, I was still surprised to learn some of the ways in which sexuality is portrayed and viewed in different countries and cultures, and the ways in which women are treated differently. Cate and Darrell share some of the experiences they have had trying to educate people they meet about their body, removing feelings of shame that are associated with the expression of sexuality, and also about what the meaning of consent is, especially within a group play situation.
In this episode, we’re going to talk about what it’s like to be a traveling swinger, how people explore their sexuality in different places around the globe, and how you can make the most of your swinger adventures as you explore new travel destinations.
Plus, you’ll learn interesting facts about international travel tips for when you’re feeling kinky and looking to connect with other like-minded people, how to find other swingers as you travel, and much more.
So listen to tonight’s episode at 8 PM EST on The Sexy Lifestyle Network via Voice America!
Welcome back to my playground, Lexual fiends and friends.
I am sooooooooooooo excited to announce that ASN Lifestyle Magazine has selected me as one of 2019’s Most Influential Women in The Lifestyle!
It’s hard to believe that ASN Lifestyle chose me for their October 2019 issue, in addition to some of the most empowering women I’ve met so far in the swinger lifestyle.
I knew 2019 was going to be a year filled with accomplishments, and I like to see this as being one more notch in my belt.
Thank you all for your love and support in helping me make everything I’ve done so far possible!
Last night I was a guest on Dr. Laurie’s radio show on CJAD 800!
She invited me to talk about what it means to be in the swinger lifestyle, how to explore different kinds of consensual non-monogamy, the difference between polyamory and non-monogamy, what it’s REALLY like inside a swingers club, as well as tips for talking to your partner about being non-monogamous!
In case you missed it, listen in the player below or check it out directly on Soundcloud.
Welcome back to my podcast playground, Lexual friends and fiends.
Can you BELIEVE that this is my 30TH PODCAST EPISODE?!?!
I feel like I’ve come a long way since my early podcast days! When I listen to the audio and my interviews with all the incredible folks who have joined me on Seek, Discover, Create, I feel so proud of my journey. And I am so thrilled for how many people I’ve been able to help educate about sexuality, health and relationships. It’s not an easy job, but I LOVE doing it!
So thank you ALL for listening to my show, for all your love and support and ideas! You helped me make this happen!
Speaking of educating others, let’s talk about my latest podcast!
As someone who personally suffers from chronic migraines, I understand firsthand the impact that having chronic pain and anxiety can do to your sex life.
I invited Rachael Rose of Hedonish to talk to me and all of you about how to overcome some of these challenges that come with having a noisy brain, experiencing chronic illnesses and disabilities (although I am reserving another episode soon to talk more about other kinds of visible disabilities and to go more in depth about that specifically).
When we talk about having a noisy brain, we’re referring to the amount of STUFF that goes through your mind every day, all of your stresses and thoughts coming to life to make it hard for you to disconnect and feel sexy and simply enjoy the moment. And the challenges of having a noisy brain is especially compounded when you’re also coping with anxiety ADHD, depression and other chronic illnesses.
In this episode, Rachael Rose gives us her insight and tips into how to make the most of out your relationship(s) and sex life, even when you’re also managing stress and coping with a noisy brain and/or a disability.
We also cover how to feel sexy and confident when you’re not exactly feeling your best, how you can support a loved one with a chronic illness or disability, and how you can still enjoy pleasure and achieve satisfaction in your sexual life with your partner(s) when you’re coping with a physical or psychological illness.
Welcome back to my playground, Lexual fiends and friends.
I am LOVING all the amazing messages I receive from my podcast listeners! I feel so encouraged that you are coming to me for advice on your sexuality and relationships, and that you’re listening to my episodes and feel comfortable talking to me about you sex life.
When I don’t know the answers (and I NEVER claim to have all of them), I like to refer to some of my more specialized friends and resources, so they can give you the expert advice you truly deserve!
Lately, I’ve been receiving a lot of questions from listeners about how to go from being monogamous to polyamorous, because it can seem like QUITE a massive jump in terms of your mindset and lifestyle.
So in today’s episode, I invited Jessica Fern, psychotherapist, speaker and coach, to talk to me (and all of you!) about how to transition from a monogamous relationship into a polyamorous one (as smoothly as possible)!
I also feel like Jessica’s advice and tips are beneficial even if you’re not in a relationship currently, but are trying to move from a monogamy mindset to a poly one.
So if you’re curious about ethical non-monogamy, or are you already in some form of a non-monogamous relationship, and you want to know more about polyamory and what it takes to have a healthy polyamorous relationship, especially if you’ve only been in monogamous relationships before… this episode is for you!
There are different kinds of non-monogamous relationships, and the important thing to remember is that there’s NO ONE RIGHT WAY to do non-monogamy, just as there’s NO ONE RIGHT WAY to be monogamous.
But as you’ll discover during this podcast, there are some important tips to helping you and your partner (or partners) find a healthy recipe that works for all of you.
Jessica Fern offers advice on how to ease the transition from monogamy to polyamory, the skills and techniques you need to have, and other important things to consider to smooth out the kinks.
That’s right, Lexual friends and fiends. It’s the most wonderful time of year as we celebrate a month’s worth of self-love and self-care.
Masturbation May is the perfect opportunity to get in touch with yourself and try new things, discover what pleases you and, quite simply, make yourself feel good.
If you’re looking for inspiration, that’s what my shop is for!
Check out my curated selection of sex toys for couples and folx with pussies and dicks!
April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month. The reality is, every day should be recognized as being aware of sexual assault and learning how to educate others on all the things we can do to prevent it.
Sexual assault affects everyone, whether you yourself are a survivor or know someone else who has survived sexual assault.
This episode was a more serious subject than some of my more lighthearted podcasts, but it’s one that absolutely needed to be explored. I invite Samantha Heuwagen to talk about the comprehensive definitions of sexual assault and consent, and how to understand the role of our current social framework and culture in the power dynamics that underlie sexual assault, including why people may choose not to report incidences.
You may have noticed that in recent years, mainstream media has been increasingly filled with news mentioning sexual assault, whether talking about Olympic coach Larry Nassar, Hollywood producer Harvey Weinstein, TV personality Bill Cosby, and more of the major public figures whose abominable behavior have warranted legal charges.
You may also have noticed that throughout all of those news cycles, there were tons of people who engaged in victim-blaming and not believing the survivors. Whether you are a survivor of assault or not, those news cycles were extremely difficult to follow. I felt anger for those who sided with these men who had committed these crimes, and felt compassion for those women who were being blamed for their behavior, how they dressed, or being in the wrong place at the wrong time. I know I’m not the only one who experienced exhaustion after these media frenzies.
We also cover how survivors can obtain support, and how loved ones of survivors can provide support to them in times of need.
Importantly, we also talk about how people can educate each other about consent and how to be role models for others in terms of behavior, respect and treatment of others and their boundaries, and how this can help us change stigmas and prevent incidences of assault from happening in the first place.
Welcome back to my playground, Lexual fiends and friends.
Today’s episode of my podcast is all about BUTT STUFF!
Anal sex has become more and more popular in mainstream media, and we’re not just talking about the ladies.
People with prostates – yes, even cis-heterosexual men – enjoy being on the receiving end of anal play. And you know why? Because it can feel really, really good!
But (butt!) there’s such a stigma about anal sex, especially when talking to heterosexual men. I have received so many questions from you amazing listeners about prostate play and pegging – and does it make you gay?
I shake my head in disbelief at this question, but it really points to the salient (and undeniable) fact that there is a major lack of understanding and education when it comes to sex in general, and also as it pertains to sexual practices and sexual orientation.
To help me unpack the stigmas and double standards around anal stimulation, gender and sexual orientation, I’ve enlisted sex superheroes and educators Sunny Megatron and Ken Melvoin-Berg, co-hosts and producers of American Sex Podcast.
The three of us kinksters trade bad butt puns throughout our deep discussion about pegging and prostate play. Sunny and Ken reveal their expert techniques at milking the prostate, how men can have anal orgasms, how to protect yourself during anal play (regardless of gender), and share some of their fantastic tips on how to make prostate play and pegging even more pleasurable and exciting for everyone involved.
Sunny and Ken also get to the root of why there is a double standard when it comes to men and anal stimulation, specifically, the stigma that men who enjoy pegging or anal play have a specific sexual orientation.
Join us for this anal boot camp to learn all the important basics of what you need to know about anal stimulation, including how to introduce the topic for the first time with your partner.
Jon Snow raised a fist to the wooden door of Daenerys’s
room, rapping on it three times.
The floor below his feet seemed to sway as he waited. Was it the waves or the feelings of uncertainty flooding him that made him feel so unbalanced?
His doubts were allayed as Daenerys opened the door, blinding him with her flowing white hair, looking up at him with inquisitive yet powerful eyes that mirrored the same chaos of emotions he felt.
Holding his gaze, yet saying nothing, she moved to the side
and let Jon enter her room, closing the door behind them.
They silently evaluated the other, King and Queen, standing head to head, not as enemies, but as allies. Both Jon and Daenerys had been chosen by their people as rulers, who followed them freely. They were born to lead. But their connection felt even deeper than that.
“Why did you come here?” she asked him, taking a step to
close the gap between them.
“You know why,” he said, sliding his hand at her waist and
pulling her closer to him, then leaning down and covering her full lips with
his own.
He reveled in her low moan as she wound her arms around him and pressed her soft body against his. It had been so long since Jon had felt the touch of a woman and been this consumed with lust.
Her touch was fire. She made him feel alive, as though a flame
was burning within his core. Was she the reason the Lord of Light allowed him to be
resurrected?
Daenerys and Jon undressed each other as quickly as possible, stripping off each layer of their heavy garments and punctuating each new expanse of bare flesh with a deep kiss.
And when they were finally stripped to their barest flesh, Jon paused to admire her. Daenerys was pristine, as though carved out of ivory. His fingertips brushed against her immaculate skin, silky to his touch.
Daenerys basked in the roughness of his hardened hands, implements
belonging to a warrior, a true King. Her small hands explored the topography of
his broad chest, still scarred with angry red marks that seemed only to humanize
him with their realness. She traced each scar with her fingertips, drinking in
the sight and feel of him.
He watched her examine his flesh, mesmerized by the
attention she paid to him, the way her hand slowly encircled his organ with
confidence, grasping him firmly.
“You said you’d bend the knee for your Queen,” she said, an
amused half-smile on her lips. “Will you promise me your sword, as well?”
Jon smiled. He grasped both of her hands in one of his large
ones, stopping her movements, and looked her dead in the eyes.
“Not yet,” he told her gruffly, and took her lips captive. He
breathed her in, then let his mouth and hands travel down her neck, his tongue
dipping into the hollow of her collarbone before continuing its journey to her
nipples. He ensnared each of them in turn, twirling his tongue around each
hardened nipple, sucking on them gently.
She held the back of his head as he devoured her, and she
could feel her nerve endings catch fire, the sensations shooting from her
breasts down to the apex of her thighs.
His hands traced the curves of her hips, as he slowly sank to
his knees on the floor in front of her.
Kneeling.
Jon’s lips met with the tender flesh of her flat belly, trailing kisses down to the downy blond hair between her thighs. He breathed in her musk, then buried his face between her thighs.
She groaned deeply when felt his tongue brush up against her
swollen lips, her eyes rolling back. As she watched his dark-haired head
between her legs, she squirmed, provoking Jon to spread her thighs further
apart. The strength of his grip prevented her from moving as he consumed her
fragrant honey, sticky with its sweetness.
She was so caught off guard with his dominion over her, even
in his position on his knees, that it wasn’t long before she felt herself
quivering under his tongue. He held her in place as she cried out his name, her
muscles contracting uncontrollably until he’d drawn out all the pleasure he
possibly could.
When he surfaced again, rising from the floor, he licked his lips of her wetness and smiled mischievously. Daenerys grabbed his hair pulled him to her, sucking on his
tongue and tasting herself in his mouth.
Jon’s lifted her into the air, and as she wrapped her legs
around his waist, crossing them at the ankle, she could feel the heat of his
manhood pressing against her nether lips.
He carried her to the edge of the bed, laying her down on
her back and hovering over her. He brushed the wisps of blond hair from her
eyes, uncovering her face and looking at her tenderly.
Impatient with lust, Daenerys entwined her fingers in his dark
curls and kissed him fully. His fervency began to match her own, and she moaned
under the roughness of his touch and dug her nails into his back.
And with his muscled body hovering over hers, pinning her
down with her legs spread open, she felt more powerless yet more empowered than
ever.
She was so used to being in control, of being in power, that
she craved the sensation of powerlessness more than anything. Well, controlled
powerlessness. With the head of his sword positioned at the hot entrance of her
femininity, her hips rose up to meet his, and she felt him slide himself inside
of her.
Daenerys gasped as Jon filled her, invading her depths with his power, her tight walls throbbing around him.
Jon began to thrust into her, slow and shallow first, getting her used to the size of him. Her hands brushed over his muscled shoulders and back, down to his taut ass, grabbing him and feeling the muscles of his ass contract as he pushed himself into her over and over again.
Together, they lost themselves in the feel of each other,
limbs entwined with each other as he fucked her more deeply, more intensely, their
moans echoing through the chamber and betraying their ecstasy to anyone who
might be passing in front of the door.
It was as though time had stopped, as though the entire
world wasn’t about to end. Nothing mattered but the fire that burned between
them in this moment.
Suffused with passion, she found the strength to flip Jon
over on his back, straddling his powerful thighs. As she rode him mercilessly,
she pinned his arms above his head and looked down at him.
Jon felt the tips of her long mane of hair graze against his face and chest, allowing her this power over him, struggling to control himself as she quickened her speed. He could do nothing but watch her in unbridled passion. She felt like fire from the inside, nearly melting his cock with the scorching heat inside of her.
Dany roared as she brought herself to the brink of climax
again, and Jon felt her squeeze around him, her honey dripping out of her and
down his shaft.
She slowed her movements as she caught her breath, the only
sign of mortality that Jon could detect amid her goddess-like perfection. Dany
smiled slowly and bent to kiss him again, licking the salty sweat from his brow
as she loosened her grip on his arms. His hands slipped up her back and he felt
a sheen of sweat down her spine, relieved that she too was melting with the
heat between them.
Her lips trailed from his neck down his chest, taking her
time to kiss the wounds on his torso. He again succumbed to her touch as she dragged
her lips lower and lower, until she could taste her own fragrant juices on his
throbbing flesh.
He groaned as his Queen took his cock into her mouth, watching raptly as she savored him and looked back at him with her translucent eyes. His fingers buried in her silky hair, absently caressing the intricate braids as he lost himself in the feel of her hot mouth all over him. Jon already felt he could burst, but he stopped himself, controlling the mounting pleasure until he thought he would lose his sanity.
Daenerys seemed to know he was about to explode, and slipped
her lips off him, slurping towards the end. It was her turn to smile devilishly
as she crawled back over his body, surprising Jon by spinning over his body and
turning her back to him. She straddled his hips and mounted him like a stallion
again, giving him the perfect view of her arched back and rounded ass as she impaled
herself upon his cock.
Jon watching her move on him with regal grace as she threw
her head back, with her plentiful hair spilling down her back, over her ass and
tickled his thighs and abdomen.
She gripped onto the bedposts on either side of them as she
continued to ride him with bestial strength, the undulation of her hips rough, only
serving to increase his desire for her. He was consumed with the friction and
stickiness of her tight walls, sweltering in the heat they were generating
together, deafened with the loud volume of their combined moans.
The only thing tethering him to reality and grounding him as
he nearly floated outside his body, was the intense pressure of Dany clutching his
cock from inside of her. As she approached her climax and sped up her pace, she
exploded around him, shaking and groaning wildly. Jon’s pleasure peaked too, growling
as he erupted and released himself inside her.
Daenerys felt the trickle of his juices flowing out of her
and down his cock and balls, mixing with her own sticky fluids.
Then she exhaled loudly, laying back on Jon with him still
inside her, still filled with his throbbing organ, letting him brush her hair
back and kiss the side of her face.
“So now that I’ve given you what you wanted,” she began, as
though resuming a conversation.
“What I wanted?”
he inquired, and they both laughed. He entwined her fingers with his own and
brought her hands to his lips.
“I want you to tell me a story,” she commanded him.
“Do you really need help falling asleep?” he jested.
She slapped his hand playfully, then slid off of him and
leaned on her elbow to look at him with her usual penetrating gaze.
“That day that Sir Davos mentioned you had been stabbed in
the heart… what did he mean by that?”
Jon was hesitant. “He was just tired from the journey – ” he
started.
“Don’t lie to your Queen,” she warned him. “Shall I remind
you of the consequences?”
Jon paused and smiled slightly, pondering what it meant for
him to tell her. Yet he wanted her to know everything. She had been reborn in
fire. If anyone could understand… it would be her, right?
“You might not believe me,” he told her.
“After what we’ve seen and experienced together,” she said, brushing
the dark hair from his eyes. “I think you can trust that I will believe anything
you say.”
Jon nodded slightly, but as he began to speak, they were
both startled with the loud sound of someone rapping at their door.
Tyrion entered the chamber without waiting. He did not seem
surprised in the least to see them together.
“Do you understand the meaning of privacy?” Daenerys
admonished him.
“I apologize for the intrusion, my Queen. But you are both needed
upstairs, at once.”
“I demand to know what’s going on,” The Queen said.
Tyrion raised up a piece of rolled parchment.
“There’s been a raven,” he said, sighing heavily with worry. “You’re not going to believe this…”
