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Watch the Secrets, Lies, and Dirty Games Video Trailer

Watch the Secrets, Lies, and Dirty Games Video Trailer

by Lexi Sylver® | May 15, 2023 | Erotic Short Stories, Erotic Stories & Writing, Lexi's Books, Updates

Welcome back to my playground, my Lexual fiends and friends! Are you ready to spark your Lexuality and bring some steamy, sexy, and scandalous reading into your life? The official video trailer for my brand new Lexual erotic short story, Secrets, Lies, and Dirty...
Secrets, Lies, and Dirty Games Cover Reveal

Secrets, Lies, and Dirty Games Cover Reveal

by Lexi Sylver® | May 3, 2023 | Erotic Short Stories, Erotic Stories & Writing, Lexi's Books, Updates

Welcome back to my playground, my Lexual fiends and friends! If you’re ready to spark your Lexuality and bring some spice to your life, then you’re going to love my Lexual news! My new short erotic story, Secrets, Lies, and Dirty Games, will be out soon...

To His Mistress Going to Bed: Erotic Quote from John Dunne

by Lexi Sylver® | Sep 26, 2018 | Erotic Quotes, Updates

Today’s Wednesday Wisdom is brought to you by a great poet, mister John Dunne. Welcome back, my Lexual friends. Enjoy today’s #WordyWednesday quote from John Dunne’s poem, “To His Mistress Going to Bed”. Come, Madam, come, all rest...

Erotic Quote: Anaïs Nin on Sexual Power

by Lexi Sylver® | Sep 19, 2018 | Erotic Quotes

Ready for some erotic wisdom this Wordy Wednesday? Here’s one of my favorite quotes from Anaïs Nin… “The source of sexual power is curiosity, passion.” – Anaïs Nin, From The Diary of Anais Nin, 1939-1944 She’s so right....

Word Porn: The Marquis de Sade From 120 Days of Sodom

by Lexi Sylver® | Sep 5, 2018 | Erotic Quotes

Welcome back to my playground, you feisty fiend, you. This Hump Day, I present to you one of my favorite quotes from a man who is and was notorious for his exceptionally pornographic and erotic works, most of which he penned during his multiple incarcerations in...
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JOIN ME ON IG LIVE THIS WEDNESDAY (11/15) AT 12 PM JOIN ME ON IG LIVE THIS WEDNESDAY (11/15) AT 12 PM EST ✨⬇️⁠
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Can’t wait to share details on what I’ve been up to! 🤩⁠
⁠
#lexisylver #lexuality #getlexual #lexual #relationshipcoach #iglive #joinmelive #askmequestions #questions #info #whativebeenupto #relationshipcoaching #coaching #exploreyourlexuality
Share in the comments! What do you (or would you) Share in the comments! What do you (or would you) want to get out of the open lifestyle?⁠ 💬⁠
⁠
📖 These stats are from one of my Swinging 101 webinars, from couples and singles who are curious or experienced in the open lifestyle.⁠
⁠
Explore Your Lexuality in the open lifestyle at lexisylver.com/swing!⁠
⁠
#lexisylver #lexuality #getlexual #lexual #poll #survey #swinging101 #lifestyledating #thelifestyle #exploreyourlexuality #stats #research #surveysays #relationships #openrelationships #marriage #love #community
Have a sexy Saturday, my nerdy, Lexual friends! 🔥⁠
⁠
➡️Help me tag the source of this creation⁠
⁠
#lexisylver #lexuality #getlexual #lexual #commas #funny #commasutra #exploreyourlexuality
Reclaiming our power, one "no" at a time! This one Reclaiming our power, one "no" at a time! This one's a reminder for my fellow recovering people-pleasers about how important it is to set healthy boundaries, be realistic with our time and energy, and prioritize our own well-being. 💬⁠
⁠
✨ How confident do you feel about saying no and setting realistic boundaries with others?⁠
⁠
#lexisylver #lexuality #getlexual #communcation #coaching #relationshipcoach #coach #accreditedcoach #lexual #exploreyourlexuality #tweet
THIS WEDNESDAY! ⚡️⁠ ⁠ 💬 Notice that the THIS WEDNESDAY! ⚡️⁠
⁠
💬 Notice that the title of my event is WTF to do WHEN (and not IF) Swinging Goes Wrong? Because at some point or another, mishaps can arise.⁠
⁠
Most open lifestylers have been through at least one tough scenario… and that’s okay! Learn how to cope in the moment and deal with the aftermath. Join us this Wednesday at 8 PM ET at my live webinar! 🔗 in bio or lexisylver.com/swing⁠
⁠
#swinging101 #webinar #thelifestyle #lexisylver #getlexual #exploreyourlexuality #learning #events #education #teaching #educate #event #party #online #clubs #parties #coach #coaching #coachesofig
If you're interested in exploring an open relation If you're interested in exploring an open relationship, what's holding you back?⁠
⁠
These are the stats from one of my Swinging 101 webinar polls, but there are also so many more reasons why people and couples choose to remain monogamous rather than opening up. ⁠
⁠
And if ethical non-monogamy isn't your jam, that's totally fine. Monogamy isn't everyone's jam, either. ⁠
⁠
If you and/or your partner are intrigued about exploring new possibilities in your relationship, you can absolutely make that possible, regardless of your relationship style or orientation!⁠
⁠
The real question is: What's holding you back from having a fulfilling and pleasurable relationship?⁠
⁠
Share with me in the comments, my Lexplorers!⁠
⁠
#Swinging101 #OpenLifestyle #open #relationships #thelifestyle #lexisylver #lexuality #getlexual #lexual #exploreyourlexuality #education #advice #marriage #love #relationshipcoach #coach #coaching #couplescoach #couplesgoals
🔥 Let's talk about relationship burnout 🔥⁠ 🔥 Let's talk about relationship burnout 🔥⁠
⁠
👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 As a relationship coach, I'm here to share practical tips, proven strategies, and personal experiences to help you reignite that spark! Together, we'll tackle those exhausting and toxic cycles that your relationship tends to go through, so that you can rediscover the pleasures of a healthier, more fulfilling bond.⁠
⁠
EVERY relationship deserves a chance to thrive! ⁠
⁠
📩 Visit the #linkinbio to book your #FREE 1-hour coaching discovery call with me to see if we are a good fit! Let's rejuvenate your relationship! 🙌✨⁠
⁠
#relationships #couple #couples #dating #relationshipcoach #privatecoach #coaching #relationshipburnout #burnout⁠ #lexisylver #lexuality #getlexual #lexual #exploreyourlexuality
Happy Halloween from your favorite Succubus! 😈🔥 ⁠
⁠
🥂 Cheers to all of my thirsty, Lexual fiends and friends. ⁠
⁠
🔥 What is / was your costume of choice this year!?⁠
⁠
#lexisylver #lexuality #getlexual #lexual #halloween #halloweencostume #fiends #succubus #wine #cocktails #dressingup #exploreyourlexuality #halloweenvibes #spooky #spookyseason #costume
Happy Moanday⁠ 💀⁠ ⁠ Where is the ✨spook Happy Moanday⁠ 💀⁠
⁠
Where is the ✨spookiest✨ place you've ever boned? Share in the comments below!⁠
⁠
Help me tag the source!⁠
⁠
#lexisylver #lexuality #getlexual #spooky #halloweenvibes #skeleton #halloween #moanday #mondayvibes #lexual #exploreyourlexuality
What are you up to this Halloweekend?⁠ 👻⬇️⁠
⁠
🎃Whatever Lexual experiences your Halloween adventures bring you, don't forget that safety comes first!⁠
⁠
Need some safe seggs tips? Read my blog via the #linkinbio!⁠
⁠
➡️Help me tag the source!⁠
⁠
#lexisylver #lexuality #getlexual #lexual #exploreyourlexuality #safetyfirst #ghosts #funny #funnyphoto #halloweenweekend #halloweenmeme #halloween #halloweenvibes #ghostdrawing #halloweekend⁠
Flashback Friday⁠ ⚡️⁠ ⁠ 🖤 My partner Flashback Friday⁠ ⚡️⁠
⁠
🖤  My partner Johnny & I visited The Museum of Medieval Torture in San Gimignano, Italy, trying to look shocked that some of these torture devices look suspiciously like antique BDSM gear.⁠
⁠
#lexisylver #lexuality #getlexual #lexual #medieval #sangimignano #italy #italiantravels #halloween #spooky #spookyseason #exploreyourlexuality⁠ #relationships #relationship #goals #couplesgoals #travel
Delve into a journey of personal growth, self-disc Delve into a journey of personal growth, self-discovery, and enhanced relationships throughout the potentially stressful holiday season... and well into the new year! 🔥⁠
⁠
❤️ Join me on Nov. 15th at 8 PM ET for my #live webinar as I teach you how to navigate relationship dynamics with your family and partner, when to set, keep, and negotiate boundaries, manage feelings, expectations, and pressure, and prioritize self-care and self-exploration during the holidays.⁠
⁠
🎟 Get tickets via the #linkinbio or lexisylver.com/events⁠
⁠
#lexisylver #lexuality #getlexual #lexual #exploreyourlexuality #lexualevents #holidays #holidaystress #thriving #relationshipcoaching #coach #relationshipcoach #holidayvibes #holidaysandrelationships #stress #newyear
Effective communication plays a vital role in fost Effective communication plays a vital role in fostering a healthy and strong relationship. 📣⁠
⁠
There’s no secret that communication in a relationship can be extremely difficult. You’re not alone! I’ve helped tons of clients struggle with communication.⁠
⁠
⁠🔑 In my latest webinar, Real Talk, I taught individuals and couples how to communicate in a way that can help bring you closer together as a couple. Effective communication is a powerful key that unlocks the door to a thriving, authentic relationship⁠!⁠
⁠
💗 My video course is now available for purchase at lexisylver.com/realtalkcourse or #linkinbio!⁠
⁠
#relationships #couple #dating #couples #relationshipgoals #couplegoals #relationshipadvice #marriage #romance #match #connection #datingadvice #successful #lexisylver #getlexual #relationshipcoach #relationshipcoaching #coaching⁠
Happy Ma5turbati0n Moanday, my Lexual friends! ⁠ Happy Ma5turbati0n Moanday, my Lexual friends! ⁠🎃⁠
⁠
➡️ Help me find the source!⁠
⁠
#lexisylver #lexuality #getlexual #meme #funnymeme ##lexual #exploreyourlexuality #funny #memes #conjuring #spooky #halloweenmeme
It's time for some REAL TALK 🎙⁠ ⁠ ✨ In th It's time for some REAL TALK 🎙⁠
⁠
✨ In this live webinar, I'll help you discover how to openly, effectively & authentically express yourself in ways that lead to meaningful results in your life and relationships!⁠
⁠
🎟 in bio or lexisylver.com/events⁠
⁠
#lexisylver #lexuality #getlexual #lexual #exploreyourlexuality #relationships #couples #couplescoaching #relationshipcoaching #realtalk #real #talk #communcation #communicationissexy #authentic #coach #coachesofig #coaching
You might be shocked at what you discover when you You might be shocked at what you discover when you view your relationship from a new angle! ⬇️

When you've been with the same person for a long time, you can start to get a "tunnel vision" about the way you view each other, yourselves, and the potential of your relationship. 

💗 My partner Johnny and I have been together for almost 20 years, celebrating our 9th wedding anniversary just a few weeks ago. Over those two decades, we've evolved so much, as individuals and as a couple... a true team that gives each other space to be our authentic selves and thrive in the life we've created together.

💬 One of the reasons our relationship has had this space to grow and strengthen is because we both feel open and safe to express ourselves, and listen to each other, without judgment. We're open to the endless possibilities that we can explore and enjoy together. 

And a MASSIVE reason why that's possible is because we know how to communicate with each other.

When I'm coaching couples (monogamous and open), common threads often emerge: they're STUCK. They find communication with each other tricky, but there are things they want and need to say to each other. They're afraid of hurting each other's feelings or being judged by each other. They tend to react to each other rather than truly listening to the other person. They find it challenging to defuse the intensity of their emotions and sometimes say hurtful things they don't mean. 

If you don't feel heard, seen or understood by your partner, your potential for relationship growth is limited. How can you evolve if you can't communicate with each other about what it is that you want, or need, in your relationship? About your dreams, your goals, your desires?

Coaching can open up new areas of possible exploration and growth that endures beyond your coaching sessions.

🔗 Book your free coaching discovery call now at lexisylver.com/coach to explore how you and your partner can grow and thrive in your relationship! #couplesgoals

#coach #coaching #lexisylver #exploreyourlexuality #getlexual #lexual #lexuality #relationships #openrelationships #relationshipadvice #love #travel #italy #duomo #florence #vacation #couples
Are you curious and want to learn more about swing Are you curious and want to learn more about swingers clubs, parties, and events? 💬⁠
⁠
🔥 Join my webinar next week and find out what the lifestyle has to offer #linkinbio or lexisylver.com/swing!⁠
⁠
In this webinar, we’ll explore: ⁠
💬 What to talk to your partner about before attending ⁠
🍍 What to expect at a swinging club or event⁠
💗 The best ways to prepare before a sexy night out⁠
📖 How to set boundaries and limits with your partner(s)⁠
⁠
#swinging101 #webinar #thelifestyle #lexisylver #getlexual #exploreyourlexuality #learning #events #education #teaching #educate #event #party #online #clubs #parties #coach #coaching #coachesofig
Now that's one way to get noticed... 😂🍍⁠
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Found via @sharedenverco⁠
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#lexisylver #lexuality #getlexual #meme #pineapplememe #neighbor #thelifestyle #lifestyle #lifestyledating #pineapple #lexual #exploreyourlexuality #funny #funnymeme
Feeling shy and unsure of how to make to approach Feeling shy and unsure of how to make to approach someone you're interested in? Don't worry, you're not alone! In one of my recent polls, 76% of you said that you feel nervous or intimidated about making the first move! ⬇️⁠
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❤️ As a coach, I love helping you harness your strengths, sharing with you the tools you need to embrace your awesome self, and empower you to overcome challenges you face in the dating world and beyond.⁠
⁠
💡 Ready to start Exploring Your Lexuality? Book your #free coaching discovery call via the #linkinbio or lexisylver.com/coach⁠!⁠
⁠
#relationshipcoach #coaching #relationships #firstmove #intimidated #thefirstmove #explorelexuality #poll #igpoll #makingthefirstmove #brave #nervous #initiative #social #confidence #empowerment #coach #coachesofig
Nearly EVERYONE in the lifestyle has an experience Nearly EVERYONE in the lifestyle has an experience that did not go quite as they hoped or expected… and that’s okay! In my Swinging 101 webinar we will explore WTF to do when (not IF) swinging goes wrong! ⬇️⁠
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📖 We will explore the most common swinger mishaps, dealing with jealousy and other feelings that may arise, how to handle a scenario that goes awry in the moment, what to do if your boundaries have been broken or pushed too far for comfort, and SO much more!⁠
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🔗 Join us a week from today (and your ticket includes video replay access)! 🔗 in bio or lexisylver.com/swing⁠
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#wtf #wrong #datingadvice #exploreyourlexuality #swinger #swinging101 #lessons #livewebinar #webinar #hangout #secrets #lexisylver #GetLexual #lexuality #love #website #SDC⁠
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JOIN ME ON IG LIVE THIS WEDNESDAY (11/15) AT 12 PM JOIN ME ON IG LIVE THIS WEDNESDAY (11/15) AT 12 PM EST ✨⬇️⁠
⁠
Can’t wait to share details on what I’ve been up to! 🤩⁠
⁠
#lexisylver #lexuality #getlexual #lexual #relationshipcoach #iglive #joinmelive #askmequestions #questions #info #whativebeenupto #relationshipcoaching #coaching #exploreyourlexuality
Share in the comments! What do you (or would you) Share in the comments! What do you (or would you) want to get out of the open lifestyle?⁠ 💬⁠
⁠
📖 These stats are from one of my Swinging 101 webinars, from couples and singles who are curious or experienced in the open lifestyle.⁠
⁠
Explore Your Lexuality in the open lifestyle at lexisylver.com/swing!⁠
⁠
#lexisylver #lexuality #getlexual #lexual #poll #survey #swinging101 #lifestyledating #thelifestyle #exploreyourlexuality #stats #research #surveysays #relationships #openrelationships #marriage #love #community
Have a sexy Saturday, my nerdy, Lexual friends! 🔥⁠
⁠
➡️Help me tag the source of this creation⁠
⁠
#lexisylver #lexuality #getlexual #lexual #commas #funny #commasutra #exploreyourlexuality
Reclaiming our power, one "no" at a time! This one Reclaiming our power, one "no" at a time! This one's a reminder for my fellow recovering people-pleasers about how important it is to set healthy boundaries, be realistic with our time and energy, and prioritize our own well-being. 💬⁠
⁠
✨ How confident do you feel about saying no and setting realistic boundaries with others?⁠
⁠
#lexisylver #lexuality #getlexual #communcation #coaching #relationshipcoach #coach #accreditedcoach #lexual #exploreyourlexuality #tweet
THIS WEDNESDAY! ⚡️⁠ ⁠ 💬 Notice that the THIS WEDNESDAY! ⚡️⁠
⁠
💬 Notice that the title of my event is WTF to do WHEN (and not IF) Swinging Goes Wrong? Because at some point or another, mishaps can arise.⁠
⁠
Most open lifestylers have been through at least one tough scenario… and that’s okay! Learn how to cope in the moment and deal with the aftermath. Join us this Wednesday at 8 PM ET at my live webinar! 🔗 in bio or lexisylver.com/swing⁠
⁠
#swinging101 #webinar #thelifestyle #lexisylver #getlexual #exploreyourlexuality #learning #events #education #teaching #educate #event #party #online #clubs #parties #coach #coaching #coachesofig
If you're interested in exploring an open relation If you're interested in exploring an open relationship, what's holding you back?⁠
⁠
These are the stats from one of my Swinging 101 webinar polls, but there are also so many more reasons why people and couples choose to remain monogamous rather than opening up. ⁠
⁠
And if ethical non-monogamy isn't your jam, that's totally fine. Monogamy isn't everyone's jam, either. ⁠
⁠
If you and/or your partner are intrigued about exploring new possibilities in your relationship, you can absolutely make that possible, regardless of your relationship style or orientation!⁠
⁠
The real question is: What's holding you back from having a fulfilling and pleasurable relationship?⁠
⁠
Share with me in the comments, my Lexplorers!⁠
⁠
#Swinging101 #OpenLifestyle #open #relationships #thelifestyle #lexisylver #lexuality #getlexual #lexual #exploreyourlexuality #education #advice #marriage #love #relationshipcoach #coach #coaching #couplescoach #couplesgoals
🔥 Let's talk about relationship burnout 🔥⁠ 🔥 Let's talk about relationship burnout 🔥⁠
⁠
👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 As a relationship coach, I'm here to share practical tips, proven strategies, and personal experiences to help you reignite that spark! Together, we'll tackle those exhausting and toxic cycles that your relationship tends to go through, so that you can rediscover the pleasures of a healthier, more fulfilling bond.⁠
⁠
EVERY relationship deserves a chance to thrive! ⁠
⁠
📩 Visit the #linkinbio to book your #FREE 1-hour coaching discovery call with me to see if we are a good fit! Let's rejuvenate your relationship! 🙌✨⁠
⁠
#relationships #couple #couples #dating #relationshipcoach #privatecoach #coaching #relationshipburnout #burnout⁠ #lexisylver #lexuality #getlexual #lexual #exploreyourlexuality
Happy Halloween from your favorite Succubus! 😈🔥 ⁠
⁠
🥂 Cheers to all of my thirsty, Lexual fiends and friends. ⁠
⁠
🔥 What is / was your costume of choice this year!?⁠
⁠
#lexisylver #lexuality #getlexual #lexual #halloween #halloweencostume #fiends #succubus #wine #cocktails #dressingup #exploreyourlexuality #halloweenvibes #spooky #spookyseason #costume
Happy Moanday⁠ 💀⁠ ⁠ Where is the ✨spook Happy Moanday⁠ 💀⁠
⁠
Where is the ✨spookiest✨ place you've ever boned? Share in the comments below!⁠
⁠
Help me tag the source!⁠
⁠
#lexisylver #lexuality #getlexual #spooky #halloweenvibes #skeleton #halloween #moanday #mondayvibes #lexual #exploreyourlexuality
What are you up to this Halloweekend?⁠ 👻⬇️⁠
⁠
🎃Whatever Lexual experiences your Halloween adventures bring you, don't forget that safety comes first!⁠
⁠
Need some safe seggs tips? Read my blog via the #linkinbio!⁠
⁠
➡️Help me tag the source!⁠
⁠
#lexisylver #lexuality #getlexual #lexual #exploreyourlexuality #safetyfirst #ghosts #funny #funnyphoto #halloweenweekend #halloweenmeme #halloween #halloweenvibes #ghostdrawing #halloweekend⁠
Flashback Friday⁠ ⚡️⁠ ⁠ 🖤 My partner Flashback Friday⁠ ⚡️⁠
⁠
🖤  My partner Johnny & I visited The Museum of Medieval Torture in San Gimignano, Italy, trying to look shocked that some of these torture devices look suspiciously like antique BDSM gear.⁠
⁠
#lexisylver #lexuality #getlexual #lexual #medieval #sangimignano #italy #italiantravels #halloween #spooky #spookyseason #exploreyourlexuality⁠ #relationships #relationship #goals #couplesgoals #travel
Delve into a journey of personal growth, self-disc Delve into a journey of personal growth, self-discovery, and enhanced relationships throughout the potentially stressful holiday season... and well into the new year! 🔥⁠
⁠
❤️ Join me on Nov. 15th at 8 PM ET for my #live webinar as I teach you how to navigate relationship dynamics with your family and partner, when to set, keep, and negotiate boundaries, manage feelings, expectations, and pressure, and prioritize self-care and self-exploration during the holidays.⁠
⁠
🎟 Get tickets via the #linkinbio or lexisylver.com/events⁠
⁠
#lexisylver #lexuality #getlexual #lexual #exploreyourlexuality #lexualevents #holidays #holidaystress #thriving #relationshipcoaching #coach #relationshipcoach #holidayvibes #holidaysandrelationships #stress #newyear
Effective communication plays a vital role in fost Effective communication plays a vital role in fostering a healthy and strong relationship. 📣⁠
⁠
There’s no secret that communication in a relationship can be extremely difficult. You’re not alone! I’ve helped tons of clients struggle with communication.⁠
⁠
⁠🔑 In my latest webinar, Real Talk, I taught individuals and couples how to communicate in a way that can help bring you closer together as a couple. Effective communication is a powerful key that unlocks the door to a thriving, authentic relationship⁠!⁠
⁠
💗 My video course is now available for purchase at lexisylver.com/realtalkcourse or #linkinbio!⁠
⁠
#relationships #couple #dating #couples #relationshipgoals #couplegoals #relationshipadvice #marriage #romance #match #connection #datingadvice #successful #lexisylver #getlexual #relationshipcoach #relationshipcoaching #coaching⁠
Happy Ma5turbati0n Moanday, my Lexual friends! ⁠ Happy Ma5turbati0n Moanday, my Lexual friends! ⁠🎃⁠
⁠
➡️ Help me find the source!⁠
⁠
#lexisylver #lexuality #getlexual #meme #funnymeme ##lexual #exploreyourlexuality #funny #memes #conjuring #spooky #halloweenmeme
It's time for some REAL TALK 🎙⁠ ⁠ ✨ In th It's time for some REAL TALK 🎙⁠
⁠
✨ In this live webinar, I'll help you discover how to openly, effectively & authentically express yourself in ways that lead to meaningful results in your life and relationships!⁠
⁠
🎟 in bio or lexisylver.com/events⁠
⁠
#lexisylver #lexuality #getlexual #lexual #exploreyourlexuality #relationships #couples #couplescoaching #relationshipcoaching #realtalk #real #talk #communcation #communicationissexy #authentic #coach #coachesofig #coaching
You might be shocked at what you discover when you You might be shocked at what you discover when you view your relationship from a new angle! ⬇️

When you've been with the same person for a long time, you can start to get a "tunnel vision" about the way you view each other, yourselves, and the potential of your relationship. 

💗 My partner Johnny and I have been together for almost 20 years, celebrating our 9th wedding anniversary just a few weeks ago. Over those two decades, we've evolved so much, as individuals and as a couple... a true team that gives each other space to be our authentic selves and thrive in the life we've created together.

💬 One of the reasons our relationship has had this space to grow and strengthen is because we both feel open and safe to express ourselves, and listen to each other, without judgment. We're open to the endless possibilities that we can explore and enjoy together. 

And a MASSIVE reason why that's possible is because we know how to communicate with each other.

When I'm coaching couples (monogamous and open), common threads often emerge: they're STUCK. They find communication with each other tricky, but there are things they want and need to say to each other. They're afraid of hurting each other's feelings or being judged by each other. They tend to react to each other rather than truly listening to the other person. They find it challenging to defuse the intensity of their emotions and sometimes say hurtful things they don't mean. 

If you don't feel heard, seen or understood by your partner, your potential for relationship growth is limited. How can you evolve if you can't communicate with each other about what it is that you want, or need, in your relationship? About your dreams, your goals, your desires?

Coaching can open up new areas of possible exploration and growth that endures beyond your coaching sessions.

🔗 Book your free coaching discovery call now at lexisylver.com/coach to explore how you and your partner can grow and thrive in your relationship! #couplesgoals

#coach #coaching #lexisylver #exploreyourlexuality #getlexual #lexual #lexuality #relationships #openrelationships #relationshipadvice #love #travel #italy #duomo #florence #vacation #couples
Are you curious and want to learn more about swing Are you curious and want to learn more about swingers clubs, parties, and events? 💬⁠
⁠
🔥 Join my webinar next week and find out what the lifestyle has to offer #linkinbio or lexisylver.com/swing!⁠
⁠
In this webinar, we’ll explore: ⁠
💬 What to talk to your partner about before attending ⁠
🍍 What to expect at a swinging club or event⁠
💗 The best ways to prepare before a sexy night out⁠
📖 How to set boundaries and limits with your partner(s)⁠
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