Welcome back to my playground, my Lexual fiends and friends!
Toys, anal, and unicorns, anyone? If you get all 3, lucky you!
Sexual curiosity and discovery is an exciting part of our lives, and mixing in sex toys, people, and different forms of stimulation can propel us into our naughtiest, bliss-filled experiences. The common theme here is new experiences, and as you know, I fully support helping you discover your Lexuality in all ways.
While pleasure is the main goal, adding a new element of play to your sex life can mean more than just climactic new heights. Are you experimenting? Looking to step into a new role? Creating a scene or playing with power dynamics? Simply looking to be orgasmically blissed out? Again… the options are endless!
A tool that sparks massive curiosity for many (myself included) is the use of strap-ons. How can strap-ons help increase our pleasure during partnered sex? How can we correctly use them for anal play, group scenarios, and to enter new roles?
I invited pleasure expert Luna Matatas to discuss the fundamentals of strap-on sex and all the fun things we can do with strap-ons.
We cover anal sex, pegging, strap-on play for people with vulvas as well as for folks with prostates, and how to incorporate strap-ons to spice up threesomes and other kinds of group sex.
Luna provides her expert tips on how to know what kinds of harnesses and dildos can be used for different kinds of play, along with beginner and professional tips for tops and bottoms to make strap-on sex extra pleasurable for everyone involved. We also discuss how to communicate strap-on fantasies with your partner(s) and how to check in during strap-on sex to ensure everyone’s pleasure.
During Letters to Lexi, we also give our advice for couples new to strap-on play, pegging and threesomes, including how a heterosexual couple can prepare to have a spicy threesome with a unicorn for the first time.
If you enjoyed tonight’s episode, explore Luna’s webinars, workshops, and sex-positive crafting brand.
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