On episode 1301 of Strictly Anonymous Confessions with host Kathy Kay, I tackle the newbie questions everyone is too shy to ask, starting with my own story: how I got into the lifestyle solo and realized I am an exhibitionist.

We get into the practical stuff that makes a first club visit fun instead of nerve-wracking: how to prep beforehand, newbie meetups, group-sex and orgy etiquette, and the art of approaching someone (and gracefully saying no). I also cover the unglamorous but essential details like protection and lube at clubs.

And if you have ever wondered how to even find clubs and meetups near you, I share how. Whether you are simply curious or ready to dive in, this one is a friendly crash course. Listen below.

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New to clubs? My Swinging 101 guide covers etiquette, prep, and what to expect.