Single men in the lifestyle get a bad rap, and on episode 1071 of Strictly Anonymous Confessions with host Kathy Kay, I explain why couples can be wary and how a newbie guy can show up the right way.
We get tactical: what not to do, why befriending the husband first is smart, how to actually get noticed on lifestyle apps, and what to put (and absolutely not put) in your bio. I map out where to meet people too, from clubs and parties to the difference between meet-and-greets, meet-and-mingles, and munches, plus how to use apps while traveling.
I also cover first-club expectations and the skill that matters most: how to give and receive a no with grace. If you are a guy wondering how to enter this world respectfully, start here. Press play below.
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Want the full newbie playbook? It is all inside my courses at Lexual Learning.