Sex Advice, Sex Positions

Position of the Week: Reverse Cowgirl

May 31, 2009

Welcome, Lexual people!  Today I offer you a classic sex position you can work into your routine if you don’t already!

The Reverse Cowgirl

This sexy version of girl-on-top-meets-doggy-style gives him a great view of your rear assets as you ride him backward.

As most of us know, men are very visually stimulated. Whether he’s sitting up against the headboard, couch or car seat, or just lying down, he gets to watch your backside (which he finds sexy, even if you don’t) as well as all the in-and-out action going on.  Plus, while you’re grinding and swiveling your hips or bouncing up and down, he can reach around and massage your clitoris (if you’re not doing it yourself already), and let his hands freely roam over your breasts.  This also gives you easy access to reach his package and give him a gentle tug every now and then.

To up the kink a bit more, you can opt to do this in front of a mirror, so he can see ALL of the goods, plus you can see the ecstatic expression on his face (super gratifying!).  Or start off with a sexy striptease, leading to your XXX-rated lap dance.  It’s fun for everyone, and perfect if you’re looking to turn up the heat a few notches.

See you Wednesday with my next story ready for you!

If you have a great sex move/position, and want to showcase it in another Position of the Week, I’d love to hear it.

Lexi

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Lexi Sylver

Lexi Sylver is the Montreal-based erotica author of Mating Season and All the Queen’s Men. She enjoys having a kinky and unconventional lifestyle and sharing her stories and experiences with others. Lexi hosts and produces SDC.com’s sexuality podcast, Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver. As an entrepreneur, advocate, educator, public speaker and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she journeys the world to attend travel events and conferences. She regularly contributes articles about sexuality and relationships to Pornhub’s Sexual Wellness Center, ASN Lifestyle Magazine, SDC.com and her personal blog. As the Media Director for SDC.com, the world’s largest adult sex education and swingers dating platform, Lexi collaborates with sexuality, health and relationship experts to provide reliable resources for those who seek it. In her work as an advocate, educator and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she travels frequently to conferences and speaks publicly at events like The Montreal Taboo Sex Show (Le Salon de l’Amour et de la Séduction). Lexi wrote and creatively produced many movies, series and scenes in the adult entertainment industry and was nominated in 2017 for an AVN award for Best Screenplay. She is a published erotic author with her new book, a collection of erotic short stories called Mating Season, now available. Her mission is to promote empowerment and education by guiding you to shamelessly explore your Lexuality!

Comments

  1. striper

    June 23, 2009 at 9:34 am Reply

    Yes! I like when she rides me like a wild horse!

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