Sex Advice, Sex Positions

Position of the Week: The Horizontal Rock & Roll

August 23, 2009

Hi again!  Here’s yet another Position of the Week!  Read it below, or take a peek and read it on my website!

What it is:
An intimate, skin-to-skin variation of missionary that rubs her just the right way.

How to do it:
Instead of standard missionary, move up her body a few inches, and straddle her legs on the outside instead of getting between them.  Hold her body against you and lie flat against her.  Have her tilt her hips up and down in sync with you.  Once you’re inside her, have her press her thighs together to create a tighter space for you, and so that every movement rubs against her clit.  You can try using a pillow under her butt to elevate her and ease deeper penetration.  Alternate between thrusting in and out and rolling your pelvis in circles to change the rhythm.

Why it’s hot:
It’s intimate, and really makes you feel the heat of skin-to-skin contact since there is so much friction.  As you move together at a slower pace, you can kiss each other, bite each other’s necks, whisper dirty little things… The tight squeeze for you, and the clitoral stimulation for her, are enough reasons to try it out immediately!

How to kink it up:
To get a bit deeper, have her spread her thighs further apart and wrap her ankles around your calves while grabbing onto your ass.  As an extra challenge, maintain your position and just roll her on top of you with her legs still pressed together.  Have her push into the bed/floor/(horizontal surface of choice) with her toes and with her arms above your head as she grinds her hips into you (moving in a back and forth motion).  Help her out by raising your hips up slightly more to meet hers as she rocks against you.

Blast some music that makes you get riled up, and enjoy the ride! 😉

See you Wednesday for my next short erotic story!  If you haven’t already had a chance, take a look at my last story, Fantasy in Motion.



Lexi Sylver

Lexi Sylver is the Montreal-based erotica author of Mating Season and All the Queen’s Men. She enjoys having a kinky and unconventional lifestyle and sharing her stories and experiences with others. Lexi hosts and produces’s sexuality podcast, Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver. As an entrepreneur, advocate, educator, public speaker and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she journeys the world to attend travel events and conferences. She regularly contributes articles about sexuality and relationships to Pornhub’s Sexual Wellness Center, ASN Lifestyle Magazine, and her personal blog. As the Media Director for, the world’s largest adult sex education and swingers dating platform, Lexi collaborates with sexuality, health and relationship experts to provide reliable resources for those who seek it. In her work as an advocate, educator and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she travels frequently to conferences and speaks publicly at events like The Montreal Taboo Sex Show (Le Salon de l’Amour et de la Séduction). Lexi wrote and creatively produced many movies, series and scenes in the adult entertainment industry and was nominated in 2017 for an AVN award for Best Screenplay. She is a published erotic author with her new book, a collection of erotic short stories called Mating Season, now available. Her mission is to promote empowerment and education by guiding you to shamelessly explore your Lexuality!

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