Sex Advice, Sex Positions

Position of the Week: The Tender Bender

August 30, 2009

Another Sunday, another Position of the Week!  Read it here or directly on my website.

What it is: a smokin’ rear-entry position that pushes allll of her buttons at once.

How to do it:
Simply have her stand up in front of you and bend so she can place her hands on the floor in front of her.  She doesn’t have to have her legs entirely straight if she’s not flexible enough (she can keep her knees slightly bent), so long as she can plant her hands down by her feet.  If she’s not tall enough for this, have her keep her heels on.  Align your hips with hers right behind her, wrap your arms around her waist to keep her steady, then insert, thrust, repeat.

Why it’s hot:
Unlike regular doggy-style, having her bend over increases the stimulation to her g-spot because the angle forces you to thrust downward into her.  With her butt raised up high in the air, the penetration will also stimulate her clit from the inside.  The view is superbly hot, which will sate at least some of your voyeuristic fantasies (temporarily of course).  Plus, you get to take over the reins of control and watch her body quiver each time you dive into her, making you feel like the King doing naughty things to his chambermaid.

How to kink it up:
Since she doesn’t have her hands free, and your arms are wrapped around her waist, slide your hand down and play with her clit from the outside.  The feeling of having all of her hot spots fired up at the same time will make her swoon, so keep a steady grip on her body.  Try giving her a few spanks on those flanks, and happily watch your handprints appear on her skin.  If she permits, lube up your fingers and circle around the rim, since her ass is already exposed and primed for it.  If rear-end penetration is okay with her, push in with your finger(s) at the same pace as your hip thrusts.  With most of her nerve endings exhilarated simultaneously, satisfaction should be guaranteed!

See you Wednesday for my newest short erotic story!  Have a fiery night…



Lexi Sylver

I’m a shameless sexcapader, author of erotic tales, sexual educator of taboo topics and alternative relationships, pleasure toy sexpert, and advocate for sexual freedom. My mission is to empower you to shamelessly explore your Lexuality, stripping away your inhibitions and fears, so that you can freely pursue the fulfilling sex life and relationships you desire — and deserve. As your Lexual guide, I’ll help you map out your own erotic journey by giving you the tools you need to better connect with your own mind and body, communicate your desires and needs with your partners, and thrive in your customized, authentic lifestyle. I’m known for my passionate style and inclusive approach, drawing from my own real-life experiences to educate, entertain, and inspire you, all while helping you discover the realm of infinite erotic possibilities that await you once you open your mind to them. Whether you’re indulging in my erotic short stories, getting sex and relationship coaching from me, joining my webinars and events, reading my articles and blogs, perusing the sex toys in my shop, or listening to my podcasts, I strive to stimulate you to think about your sexuality in a new light — freely and fearlessly. Dare to delve deeper and explore YOUR Lexuality.

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