Sex Advice, Sex Positions

Position of the Week: The Slip ‘N Slide Split

September 6, 2009

Lexual people, welcome back!  Give this position a try tonight for some serious fireworks!

Read it here or directly on my website!

What it is:
A creative alternative to Reverse Cowgirl that lets him get super deep inside you, while stimulating all of your hot spots at once.

How to do it:
Like in Reverse Cowgirl, straddle his body backwards with him lying down and his legs slightly spread.  Instead of planting your knees on either side of him, stretch one of your legs forward between his, with the back of your leg pressed as firmly as possible against the mattress/surface.  Slide your other leg back as far as it can go,  resting your weight on your knee, which is straddling the side of his body.  You should look like you are in a half split, legs spread out while you are mostly straddling his thigh.  Grind or rock yourself on him by moving your hips, shifting your weight from your knee and the ball of your extended foot.  Position yourself however you need to feel him rub against your G-spot– try leaning forward a bit by grabbing his calves, or lean back closer to him and have him help you lift up your pelvis.

Why it’s hot:
Not only are you giving him a sassy show, but in this split position you can get him intensely deep inside of you while stimulating your g-spot and your clit at the same time.  He’ll love it because of the mouthwatering view and how enveloped he feels within you.  By alternating between grinding on him and having him raise his hips up rhythmically, you can achieve sensuality and intimacy without sacrificing the down-and-dirty pleasure.

How to kink it up:
Depending on your flexibility, you can go much further with this move.  If you can, lean forward on your extended leg until you are draped over it, and get him to push into you from below.  And/or attempt to bring the leg in back of you over his body and shoulder instead of near his side for extra skin-to-skin contact, serious depth and practice for your next yoga class.  You can also try leaning back on him while still in the split position, and have him secure your body and move up into you while you lie spread out over him.  Push the limits of your flexibility, and you’ll be more than glad you tried.  Just maybe try some stretching first!

Have a sexy evening, and don’t forget to check back Wednesday for my newest short erotic story!



Lexi Sylver

I’m a shameless sexcapader, author of erotic tales, sexual educator of taboo topics and alternative relationships, pleasure toy sexpert, and advocate for sexual freedom. My mission is to empower you to shamelessly explore your Lexuality, stripping away your inhibitions and fears, so that you can freely pursue the fulfilling sex life and relationships you desire — and deserve. As your Lexual guide, I’ll help you map out your own erotic journey by giving you the tools you need to better connect with your own mind and body, communicate your desires and needs with your partners, and thrive in your customized, authentic lifestyle. I’m known for my passionate style and inclusive approach, drawing from my own real-life experiences to educate, entertain, and inspire you, all while helping you discover the realm of infinite erotic possibilities that await you once you open your mind to them. Whether you’re indulging in my erotic short stories, getting sex and relationship coaching from me, joining my webinars and events, reading my articles and blogs, perusing the sex toys in my shop, or listening to my podcasts, I strive to stimulate you to think about your sexuality in a new light — freely and fearlessly. Dare to delve deeper and explore YOUR Lexuality.

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