Sex Advice, Sex Positions

Position of the Week: The Wham Bam Wall Slam

September 13, 2009

Hi everyone!  Since today is Sunday and the start of the NFL (National Football League) season, I have come up with a sexy and aggressive position for all of you to try tonight (or, right now)!  Enjoy.  Check it out here or on my website.

What it is:
A surefire way to work out those arms and legs, while treating her to a damsel-in-distress style ride that will make her scream.

How to do it:
Standing up, lift her so that her ankles wind loosely around your waist with her hands also limp around your neck so that her body is angled a bit away from you.  Bend your knees at close to a 45 degree angle, and support your back against the wall (unless you have the strength to do it in midair), leaving just a bit of space for her legs.  Grab her hips as you pump into her– since she’s got her ankles locked around you instead of her legs, there should be space for you to slide in and out deeply and quickly.

Why it’s hot:
Since you’re taking over most of the control, you get to watch all the action, including her ecstatic expressions.  This position is perfect for right when you get back to her apartment to show her how what she’s really been missing.  Plus she’s wide open for G-spot access, and at her angle, she can enjoy friction against her clit, too.

How to kink it up:
Instead of having her clasp onto your neck, get her to support her weight on your thighs (or a piece of furniture at equal height, or the wall in back of her if space permits) so that she is mostly horizontal, with her ankles locked around your neck.  With her hips anchored to yours, you can grab her pelvis or torso and pull her back and forth over your cock as fast, deep and thoroughly.  This will be easier if she plants her feet against the wall in back of you for extra leverage instead of locking them around your neck.  With her properly secured, get her to try to swivel her hips into you to match each of your thrusts for a dual-action movement that is a winner for both of you!

See you Wednesday for my latest short erotic story.

Have a sultry rest of your weekend,



Lexi Sylver

Lexi Sylver is the Montreal-based erotica author of Mating Season and All the Queen’s Men. She enjoys having a kinky and unconventional lifestyle and sharing her stories and experiences with others. Lexi hosts and produces’s sexuality podcast, Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver. As an entrepreneur, advocate, educator, public speaker and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she journeys the world to attend travel events and conferences. She regularly contributes articles about sexuality and relationships to Pornhub’s Sexual Wellness Center, ASN Lifestyle Magazine, and her personal blog. As the Media Director for, the world’s largest adult sex education and swingers dating platform, Lexi collaborates with sexuality, health and relationship experts to provide reliable resources for those who seek it. In her work as an advocate, educator and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she travels frequently to conferences and speaks publicly at events like The Montreal Taboo Sex Show (Le Salon de l’Amour et de la Séduction). Lexi wrote and creatively produced many movies, series and scenes in the adult entertainment industry and was nominated in 2017 for an AVN award for Best Screenplay. She is a published erotic author with her new book, a collection of erotic short stories called Mating Season, now available. Her mission is to promote empowerment and education by guiding you to shamelessly explore your Lexuality!


  1. A note from Lexi… « Mating Season

    September 22, 2009 at 4:50 pm Reply

    […] out: my last Position of the Week, the Wham Bam Wall Slam, or my story, Any Vixen Sunday 3: Naomi’s Succulent Surprise, or my last top 10 list, Top 10 […]

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