Sex Advice, Sex Positions

Position of the Week: The Wham Bam Wall Slam

September 13, 2009

Hi everyone!  Since today is Sunday and the start of the NFL (National Football League) season, I have come up with a sexy and aggressive position for all of you to try tonight (or, right now)!  Enjoy.  Check it out here or on my website.

What it is:
A surefire way to work out those arms and legs, while treating her to a damsel-in-distress style ride that will make her scream.

How to do it:
Standing up, lift her so that her ankles wind loosely around your waist with her hands also limp around your neck so that her body is angled a bit away from you.  Bend your knees at close to a 45 degree angle, and support your back against the wall (unless you have the strength to do it in midair), leaving just a bit of space for her legs.  Grab her hips as you pump into her– since she’s got her ankles locked around you instead of her legs, there should be space for you to slide in and out deeply and quickly.

Why it’s hot:
Since you’re taking over most of the control, you get to watch all the action, including her ecstatic expressions.  This position is perfect for right when you get back to her apartment to show her how what she’s really been missing.  Plus she’s wide open for G-spot access, and at her angle, she can enjoy friction against her clit, too.

How to kink it up:
Instead of having her clasp onto your neck, get her to support her weight on your thighs (or a piece of furniture at equal height, or the wall in back of her if space permits) so that she is mostly horizontal, with her ankles locked around your neck.  With her hips anchored to yours, you can grab her pelvis or torso and pull her back and forth over your cock as fast, deep and thoroughly.  This will be easier if she plants her feet against the wall in back of you for extra leverage instead of locking them around your neck.  With her properly secured, get her to try to swivel her hips into you to match each of your thrusts for a dual-action movement that is a winner for both of you!

See you Wednesday for my latest short erotic story.

Have a sultry rest of your weekend,



Lexi Sylver

I’m a shameless sexcapader, author of erotic tales, sexual educator of taboo topics and alternative relationships, pleasure toy sexpert, and advocate for sexual freedom. My mission is to empower you to shamelessly explore your Lexuality, stripping away your inhibitions and fears, so that you can freely pursue the fulfilling sex life and relationships you desire — and deserve. As your Lexual guide, I’ll help you map out your own erotic journey by giving you the tools you need to better connect with your own mind and body, communicate your desires and needs with your partners, and thrive in your customized, authentic lifestyle. I’m known for my passionate style and inclusive approach, drawing from my own real-life experiences to educate, entertain, and inspire you, all while helping you discover the realm of infinite erotic possibilities that await you once you open your mind to them. Whether you’re indulging in my erotic short stories, getting sex and relationship coaching from me, joining my webinars and events, reading my articles and blogs, perusing the sex toys in my shop, or listening to my podcasts, I strive to stimulate you to think about your sexuality in a new light — freely and fearlessly. Dare to delve deeper and explore YOUR Lexuality.


  1. A note from Lexi… « Mating Season

    September 22, 2009 at 4:50 pm Reply

    […] out: my last Position of the Week, the Wham Bam Wall Slam, or my story, Any Vixen Sunday 3: Naomi’s Succulent Surprise, or my last top 10 list, Top 10 […]

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