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Position of the Week: Crouching Tigress

December 6, 2009

Hi all… have a sexy evening, & be sure to stop by Wednesday for my latest erotic short story!  Read this on my website or below.  PLUS!  If you haven’t yet, read this Friday’s Top 10 “That’s What She Said!” Moments at Work!

Position of the Week: Crouching Tigress

What it is: a sultry come-from-behind move that gives you both a workout and seriously amazing penetration.

How to do it:
Get her to stand in front you with her knees bent, like in a squat position, but with her upper body angled forward slightly, leaning on or against a surface (e.g. a stool, counter, or wall).  As you thrust into her, get her to bend and extend her knees at the same rhythm, so that you are both moving up and down in synchrony with each other.  Try to keep your pace slow, teasing and tantric.  If your lady is vertically challenged (i.e., short), get her to wear heels to even out the height difference!

Why it’s hot:
Continuously varying the angle and degree of penetration while you move slowly with each other is intimate and erotic at the same time, which she’ll love.  Plus, your deliberately drawn-out pace will ensure her pleasure, and can keep you from blowing your load a bit too early…

How to kink it up:
Reach in front of her to stroke her clit (and fondle her breasts) while you pump your hips upwards (and downwards) into her.  If she’s down, get her to bring her vibrator out from its secret hiding-place and use it to stimulate her clit while you pump into her from behind (you’ll feel it, too!). She won’t be able to resist the combination of sensations… and her moans will drown out the sounds of her little toy.  You can entice her to show you how she plays with herself when you’re not around!  Sounds like a win-win situation…

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Lexi Sylver

Lexi Sylver is the Montreal-based erotica author of Mating Season and All the Queen’s Men. She enjoys having a kinky and unconventional lifestyle and sharing her stories and experiences with others. Lexi hosts and produces’s sexuality podcast, Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver. As an entrepreneur, advocate, educator, public speaker and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she journeys the world to attend travel events and conferences. She regularly contributes articles about sexuality and relationships to Pornhub’s Sexual Wellness Center, ASN Lifestyle Magazine, and her personal blog. As the Media Director for, the world’s largest adult sex education and swingers dating platform, Lexi collaborates with sexuality, health and relationship experts to provide reliable resources for those who seek it. In her work as an advocate, educator and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she travels frequently to conferences and speaks publicly at events like The Montreal Taboo Sex Show (Le Salon de l’Amour et de la Séduction). Lexi wrote and creatively produced many movies, series and scenes in the adult entertainment industry and was nominated in 2017 for an AVN award for Best Screenplay. She is a published erotic author with her new book, a collection of erotic short stories called Mating Season, now available. Her mission is to promote empowerment and education by guiding you to shamelessly explore your Lexuality!

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