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Sexual Fantasies: Taboo, Popular and Surprising Scenarios

September 3, 2019
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Welcome back to my playground, my Lexual fiends and friends.

Do you want to know what kinds of filthy things that people fantasize about?

Of course you do, you dirty perverts! I know I do!

In the spirit of understanding more about human sexuality and human behavior, I often visit Dr. Justin Lehmiller’s blog, Sex and Psychology, to see what’s hot and trending in the world of of SEX. There is so much to know about our sexuality and I am fascinated by all the studies and surveys that Dr. Lehmiller has conducted.

Dr. Lehmiller is also the author of the book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life, which is definitely a must-read, especially for those of us who are working in the sexuality field.

That’s why I invited him onto my podcast, so we can finally talk more in depth about the results of one of his surveys about sexual fantasies.

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In this podcast, we talk about the surprising real-life findings from the surveys he’s done with people who have revealed their sexual fantasies.

We have a vivid conversation about the most common / popular sexual fantasies that people reported having, and the gender and sexual orientation differences in the types and frequencies of sexual fantasies.

Dr. Lehmiller tells us all about the sexual fantasies that people consider to be taboo but are actually normal, like ravishment (aka forced sex) fantasies and cuckolding fantasies, and explains why people might have these kinds of fantasies. (Spoiler alert: a high number of women reported having more kink / BDSM fantasies, and there’s a parallel there between BDSM and the fantasy of being ravished).

We also explore how having an active sexual imagination can be beneficial to your mental health, and what do to if you’re having unwanted sexual fantasies.

If you missed tonight’s episode, or want to catch up on my podcast, you can listen to episodes on demand on my Voice America channel and via: iHeartRadio
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Lexi Sylver

Lexi Sylver is the Montreal-based erotica author of Mating Season and All the Queen’s Men. She enjoys having a kinky and unconventional lifestyle and sharing her stories and experiences with others. Lexi hosts and produces SDC.com’s sexuality podcast, Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver. As an entrepreneur, advocate, educator, public speaker and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she journeys the world to attend travel events and conferences. She regularly contributes articles about sexuality and relationships to Pornhub’s Sexual Wellness Center, ASN Lifestyle Magazine, SDC.com and her personal blog. As the Media Director for SDC.com, the world’s largest adult sex education and swingers dating platform, Lexi collaborates with sexuality, health and relationship experts to provide reliable resources for those who seek it. In her work as an advocate, educator and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she travels frequently to conferences and speaks publicly at events like The Montreal Taboo Sex Show (Le Salon de l’Amour et de la Séduction). Lexi wrote and creatively produced many movies, series and scenes in the adult entertainment industry and was nominated in 2017 for an AVN award for Best Screenplay. She is a published erotic author with her new book, a collection of erotic short stories called Mating Season, now available. Her mission is to promote empowerment and education by guiding you to shamelessly explore your Lexuality!

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