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Encore: Butt Stuff

October 15, 2019

Welcome back to my playground, Lexual fiends and friends.

Today’s episode of my podcast is all about BUTT STUFF! Again ….

Anal sex has become more and more popular in mainstream media, and we’re not just talking about the ladies. One of the most sensitive, nerve-end filled spots in our bodies: we can all enjoy anal stimulation in whatever capacity feels right to us.

But, the stigma. Is anal sex wrong? Does anal stimulation make you gay as a Cis-Het Man? Can you hurt yourself? What about dominance and submission? I shake my head in disbelief at these question, but it really points to the salient (and undeniable) fact that there is a major lack of understanding and education when it comes to sex in general, and also as it pertains to sexual practices and sexual orientation.

To help me unpack the stigmas and double standards around anal stimulation, gender and sexual orientation, I’ve enlisted sex superheroes and educators Sunny Megatron and Ken Melvoin-Berg, co-hosts and producers of American Sex Podcast.

People with prostates – yes, even cis-heterosexual men – enjoy being on the receiving end of anal play. But (butt!) there’s such a stigma about anal sex, especially when talking to heterosexual men. I have received so many questions from you amazing listeners about prostate play and pegging – and does it make you gay? Traditionally called the “male G-Spot”, stimulating the prostate doesn’t dictate your sexual orientation at all; in fact it enhances your sexual capacities. As Sunny said it our podcast, it’s just another body part.

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The three of us kinksters trade bad butt puns throughout our deep discussion about pegging and prostate play. Sunny and Ken reveal their expert techniques at milking the prostate, how men can have anal orgasms, how to protect yourself during anal play (regardless of gender), and share some of their fantastic tips on how to make prostate play and pegging even more pleasurable and exciting for everyone involved.

Sunny and Ken also get to the root of why there is a double standard when it comes to men and anal stimulation, specifically, the stigma that men who enjoy pegging or anal play have a specific sexual orientation. Anal is an equal opportunity employer, and we are all able to enjoy it if we wish.

Join us for this anal boot camp to learn all the important basics of what you need to know about anal stimulation, including how to introduce the topic for the first time with your partner.

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Lexi Sylver

Lexi Sylver is the Montreal-based erotica author of Mating Season and All the Queen’s Men. She enjoys having a kinky and unconventional lifestyle and sharing her stories and experiences with others. Lexi hosts and produces SDC.com’s sexuality podcast, Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver. As an entrepreneur, advocate, educator, public speaker and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she journeys the world to attend travel events and conferences. She regularly contributes articles about sexuality and relationships to Pornhub’s Sexual Wellness Center, ASN Lifestyle Magazine, SDC.com and her personal blog. As the Media Director for SDC.com, the world’s largest adult sex education and swingers dating platform, Lexi collaborates with sexuality, health and relationship experts to provide reliable resources for those who seek it. In her work as an advocate, educator and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she travels frequently to conferences and speaks publicly at events like The Montreal Taboo Sex Show (Le Salon de l’Amour et de la Séduction). Lexi wrote and creatively produced many movies, series and scenes in the adult entertainment industry and was nominated in 2017 for an AVN award for Best Screenplay. She is a published erotic author with her new book, a collection of erotic short stories called Mating Season, now available. Her mission is to promote empowerment and education by guiding you to shamelessly explore your Lexuality!

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