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Encore: How to Have a Threesome: Dos, Don’ts, Tips & Tricks

January 28, 2020

Welcome back to my playground, Lexual people.

We are back again to relive one of our favorite topics: the all elusive, sexy, ménage à trois!

A threesome may very well be one of the world’s most common fantasies- besides, who wouldn’t want 4 hands instead of 2? While our fantasies are what keeps our sexual flame alive, it’s a different story turning them into reality. Making a threesome a reality can be liberating and incredibly sexy, but just like anything in life- there’s a couple of good steps to take before starting!

Threesome’s are often the gateway into a couples journey into non-monogamy, generally by introducing a unicorn (an ideally bisexual female to add for a threesome). When exploring this exciting new addition into your sex life, there may be a variety of questions you have: Luna and I are here to put your hearts at ease, and your fantasies on full swing.

Questions I got often before our first airing of this episode were super common:

What’s the best way to have a threesome?

How can my partner and I find a third or a couple we can experiment with comfortably and safely?

How can I tell my partner I’m fantasizing about a threesome?

How can I make a threesome go from fantasy to reality?

How do you handle jealousy during a threesome?

If you want to explore how to go from menage à trois fantasy to reality on your own or with your partner, listen up tonight with Luna Matatas, sex and Pleasure Educator with over 10 years of experience teaching locally, internationally and online.

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Luna and I are going to delve into the pleasures and challenges of having a threesome, from the perspective of a unicorn (no, they’re not just incredible mythical creatures!), rhino or Lucky Pierre, as well as from a couple’s point of view.

We’ll explore how to have the best possible threesome experience, with tips and tricks on finding your threesome, establishing ground rules and consent, talking about couple privilege, the expectation of bisexuality for the partners involved, tips on hosting a threesome or orgy, breaking the ice, dealing with awkwardness and jealousy, and communication strategies to keep everything running smoothly. 

We’ll teach you that threesomes can be fun and fulfilling experiences – with the right partners and in the right scenarios!

Whether you’re experienced in the art of threesome-having, curious about how to get it onnnn with two sexy individuals, or just want to hear two gals giggling about sex and the ins and outs of three-way sexcapades, you’re really going to enjoy this show!

If you missed tonight’s episode, or want to catch up on my podcast, you can listen to episodes on demand on my Voice America channel and via: iHeartRadio
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Lexi Sylver

I’m a shameless sexcapader, author of erotic tales, sexual educator of taboo topics and alternative relationships, pleasure toy sexpert, and advocate for sexual freedom. My mission is to empower you to shamelessly explore your Lexuality, stripping away your inhibitions and fears, so that you can freely pursue the fulfilling sex life and relationships you desire — and deserve. As your Lexual guide, I’ll help you map out your own erotic journey by giving you the tools you need to better connect with your own mind and body, communicate your desires and needs with your partners, and thrive in your customized, authentic lifestyle. I’m known for my passionate style and inclusive approach, drawing from my own real-life experiences to educate, entertain, and inspire you, all while helping you discover the realm of infinite erotic possibilities that await you once you open your mind to them. Whether you’re indulging in my erotic short stories, getting sex and relationship coaching from me, joining my webinars and events, reading my articles and blogs, perusing the sex toys in my shop, or listening to my podcasts, I strive to stimulate you to think about your sexuality in a new light — freely and fearlessly. Dare to delve deeper and explore YOUR Lexuality.

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