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Encore: How to Have a Threesome: Dos, Don’ts, Tips & Tricks

January 28, 2020

Welcome back to my playground, Lexual people.

We are back again to relive one of our favorite topics: the all elusive, sexy, ménage à trois!

A threesome may very well be one of the world’s most common fantasies- besides, who wouldn’t want 4 hands instead of 2? While our fantasies are what keeps our sexual flame alive, it’s a different story turning them into reality. Making a threesome a reality can be liberating and incredibly sexy, but just like anything in life- there’s a couple of good steps to take before starting!

Threesome’s are often the gateway into a couples journey into non-monogamy, generally by introducing a unicorn (an ideally bisexual female to add for a threesome). When exploring this exciting new addition into your sex life, there may be a variety of questions you have: Luna and I are here to put your hearts at ease, and your fantasies on full swing.

Questions I got often before our first airing of this episode were super common:

What’s the best way to have a threesome?

How can my partner and I find a third or a couple we can experiment with comfortably and safely?

How can I tell my partner I’m fantasizing about a threesome?

How can I make a threesome go from fantasy to reality?

How do you handle jealousy during a threesome?

If you want to explore how to go from menage à trois fantasy to reality on your own or with your partner, listen up tonight with Luna Matatas, sex and Pleasure Educator with over 10 years of experience teaching locally, internationally and online.

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Luna and I are going to delve into the pleasures and challenges of having a threesome, from the perspective of a unicorn (no, they’re not just incredible mythical creatures!), rhino or Lucky Pierre, as well as from a couple’s point of view.

We’ll explore how to have the best possible threesome experience, with tips and tricks on finding your threesome, establishing ground rules and consent, talking about couple privilege, the expectation of bisexuality for the partners involved, tips on hosting a threesome or orgy, breaking the ice, dealing with awkwardness and jealousy, and communication strategies to keep everything running smoothly. 

We’ll teach you that threesomes can be fun and fulfilling experiences – with the right partners and in the right scenarios!

Whether you’re experienced in the art of threesome-having, curious about how to get it onnnn with two sexy individuals, or just want to hear two gals giggling about sex and the ins and outs of three-way sexcapades, you’re really going to enjoy this show!

So listen to our new podcast episode tonight at 8 PM EST / 5 PM PST on Voice America’s Variety channel!

If you missed tonight’s episode, or want to catch up on my podcast, you can listen to episodes on demand on my Voice America channel and via: iHeartRadio
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Until next time, Stay Lexual and connect with me on Instagram, OnlyFans, Twitter and Facebookwhere you can get all of my most recent updates, down to the dirtiest little detail!

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Lexi

Photos of Luna courtesy of Luna Matatas

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Lexi Sylver

Lexi Sylver is the Montreal-based erotica author of Mating Season and All the Queen’s Men. She enjoys having a kinky and unconventional lifestyle and sharing her stories and experiences with others. Lexi hosts and produces SDC.com’s sexuality podcast, Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver. As an entrepreneur, advocate, educator, public speaker and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she journeys the world to attend travel events and conferences. She regularly contributes articles about sexuality and relationships to Pornhub’s Sexual Wellness Center, ASN Lifestyle Magazine, SDC.com and her personal blog. As the Media Director for SDC.com, the world’s largest adult sex education and swingers dating platform, Lexi collaborates with sexuality, health and relationship experts to provide reliable resources for those who seek it. In her work as an advocate, educator and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she travels frequently to conferences and speaks publicly at events like The Montreal Taboo Sex Show (Le Salon de l’Amour et de la Séduction). Lexi wrote and creatively produced many movies, series and scenes in the adult entertainment industry and was nominated in 2017 for an AVN award for Best Screenplay. She is a published erotic author with her new book, a collection of erotic short stories called Mating Season, now available. Her mission is to promote empowerment and education by guiding you to shamelessly explore your Lexuality!

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