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Self-Pleasure and Better Sex

May 5, 2020
Lexi Sylver Julieta Chiara SDC Podcast Self Pleasure and Better Sex

Happy Masturbation May…. or Maysturbation, as we call it!

Masturbation has long been seen as a taboo in society, a dirty, devious act. But really, what’s the big deal about masturbation? When we do masturbate, why is there more shame and stigma for women who get it on? Do the risks (if any) outweigh the ENORMOUS benefits of learning to touch our own bodies and have a right to them?

SO GO FUCK YOURSELVES!!! It’s good for you!!!

Self pleasure is one of the most innate human functions, so how can we start changing the narrative to make all folks feel empowered in their masturbation? Taking our power back can be found heavily in reclaiming our right to sexuality- and masturbation is a fantastic start. A sexually confident and satisfied person is a powerful one- we can see it clearly. We get clearer on what we want, we set better boundaries, we don’t settle for less.

If we’re masturbating often, we can also fall on the flip side of becoming predictable with ourselves. How do we switch up the same old same old? Add in the spice with ourselves? Adding in toys? Masturbating in new positions? Maybe, adding in anal play? Your body is your playground, Lexual friends.

To bring in a month full of hedonistic excitement, I invited sex educator and sex toy expert Julieta Chiara to discuss all the benefits of masturbation.

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We cover how self-pleasure is often rooted in shame, and how to change your mentality about touching yourself. When you start to own your sexuality, how can you take that power back? Or, “Reclaim Your Power” as Julieta coins it.

Julieta offers tips for people looking to change up their masturbation routine, explore your body and experience more pleasure. She also explains how varying your repertoire can help improve your sex life. We discuss how mutual masturbation can increase the intimacy in your relationship and show your partner what you enjoy. We explore how sex toys can enhance partnered sex and how to communicate with your partner about what feels good and new things you want to try.

Julieta and I also talk about anal stimulation, warming up and how to make anal experiences more comfortable and pleasurable. How do you start out? How do you prep for anal? How does anal stimulation benefit the female body?

Finally, we also answer some question from the audience during Letters to Lexi.

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Lexi Sylver

I’m a shameless sexcapader, author of erotic tales, sexual educator of taboo topics and alternative relationships, pleasure toy sexpert, and advocate for sexual freedom. My mission is to empower you to shamelessly explore your Lexuality, stripping away your inhibitions and fears, so that you can freely pursue the fulfilling sex life and relationships you desire — and deserve. As your Lexual guide, I’ll help you map out your own erotic journey by giving you the tools you need to better connect with your own mind and body, communicate your desires and needs with your partners, and thrive in your customized, authentic lifestyle. I’m known for my passionate style and inclusive approach, drawing from my own real-life experiences to educate, entertain, and inspire you, all while helping you discover the realm of infinite erotic possibilities that await you once you open your mind to them. Whether you’re indulging in my erotic short stories, getting sex and relationship coaching from me, joining my webinars and events, reading my articles and blogs, perusing the sex toys in my shop, or listening to my podcasts, I strive to stimulate you to think about your sexuality in a new light — freely and fearlessly. Dare to delve deeper and explore YOUR Lexuality.

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