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Self-Pleasure and Better Sex

May 5, 2020
Lexi Sylver Julieta Chiara SDC Podcast Self Pleasure and Better Sex

Happy Masturbation May…. or Maysturbation, as we call it!

Masturbation has long been seen as a taboo in society, a dirty, devious act. But really, what’s the big deal about masturbation? When we do masturbate, why is there more shame and stigma for women who get it on? Do the risks (if any) outweigh the ENORMOUS benefits of learning to touch our own bodies and have a right to them?

SO GO FUCK YOURSELVES!!! It’s good for you!!!

Self pleasure is one of the most innate human functions, so how can we start changing the narrative to make all folks feel empowered in their masturbation? Taking our power back can be found heavily in reclaiming our right to sexuality- and masturbation is a fantastic start. A sexually confident and satisfied person is a powerful one- we can see it clearly. We get clearer on what we want, we set better boundaries, we don’t settle for less.

If we’re masturbating often, we can also fall on the flip side of becoming predictable with ourselves. How do we switch up the same old same old? Add in the spice with ourselves? Adding in toys? Masturbating in new positions? Maybe, adding in anal play? Your body is your playground, Lexual friends.

To bring in a month full of hedonistic excitement, I invited sex educator and sex toy expert Julieta Chiara to discuss all the benefits of masturbation.

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We cover how self-pleasure is often rooted in shame, and how to change your mentality about touching yourself. When you start to own your sexuality, how can you take that power back? Or, “Reclaim Your Power” as Julieta coins it.

Julieta offers tips for people looking to change up their masturbation routine, explore your body and experience more pleasure. She also explains how varying your repertoire can help improve your sex life. We discuss how mutual masturbation can increase the intimacy in your relationship and show your partner what you enjoy. We explore how sex toys can enhance partnered sex and how to communicate with your partner about what feels good and new things you want to try.

Julieta and I also talk about anal stimulation, warming up and how to make anal experiences more comfortable and pleasurable. How do you start out? How do you prep for anal? How does anal stimulation benefit the female body?

Finally, we also answer some question from the audience during Letters to Lexi.

So listen to our new podcast episode tonight at 8 PM EST / 5 PM PST on Voice America’s Variety channel!

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Until next time, Stay Lexual and connect with me on Instagram, OnlyFans, Twitter and Facebookwhere you can get all of my most recent updates, down to the dirtiest little detail!



Lexi Sylver

Lexi Sylver is the Montreal-based erotica author of Mating Season and All the Queen’s Men. She enjoys having a kinky and unconventional lifestyle and sharing her stories and experiences with others. Lexi hosts and produces SDC.com’s sexuality podcast, Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver. As an entrepreneur, advocate, educator, public speaker and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she journeys the world to attend travel events and conferences. She regularly contributes articles about sexuality and relationships to Pornhub’s Sexual Wellness Center, ASN Lifestyle Magazine, SDC.com and her personal blog. As the Media Director for SDC.com, the world’s largest adult sex education and swingers dating platform, Lexi collaborates with sexuality, health and relationship experts to provide reliable resources for those who seek it. In her work as an advocate, educator and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she travels frequently to conferences and speaks publicly at events like The Montreal Taboo Sex Show (Le Salon de l’Amour et de la Séduction). Lexi wrote and creatively produced many movies, series and scenes in the adult entertainment industry and was nominated in 2017 for an AVN award for Best Screenplay. She is a published erotic author with her new book, a collection of erotic short stories called Mating Season, now available. Her mission is to promote empowerment and education by guiding you to shamelessly explore your Lexuality!

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