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June 2, 2020
Lexi Sylver Front Porch Swingers SDC Presents Hotwifing

Welcome back to my playground, my Lexual fiends and friends!

What’s it like to be in a hotwifing relationship?

Hotwifing and how to be a hotwife are such popular topics on my podcast, I decided to bring it back in this episode to discuss it in more depth!

Hotwifing may be a confusing phenomenon to some: a married woman has sexual freedom to have sex with others and their partners are also into the idea?

For those who aren’t already in a swinging or ethically non-monogamous relationship, it may be difficult to understand how a hotwifing relationship works. Every hotwifing relationship has their own unique, powerful dynamics, just like every relationship is different.

YES, being a hotwife is real… and it’s HOT!

Real-life hotwifing couple and podcasters Brenna and Brian of Front Porch Swingers join me to get personal about their own relationship dynamic and experiences.

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Brenna divulges what it’s like to be a hotwife in their stag-vixen dynamic, and how she and Brian use sexting, photos, audio and videos to maintain their intimacy and spice up their relationship. They build anticipation for each other constantly, making each and everyday an adventure. Brenna sends hot photos or audio of her hotwifing adventures to Brian while he’s working, making him that much more excited to come home and be with her. Sharing sexy moments together, their dynamic is described as an “unconventional way of relationship-building”.

Before exploring a more open dynamic, Brian and Brenna were set up for success by practicing BDSM and kink. Their kinky lifestyle gave them the tools to communicate constantly, effectively, and honestly, which is something the open lifestyle (and any healthy relationship) requires.

So how can we translate this love and dynamic into the current times of social distancing during the coronavirus pandemic? They discuss how folks who are in open relationships can adapt to the current times while respecting social distancing.

Brenna and Brian explore how they personally connect with potential and current lovers to keep it sexy and seductive, even during times of quarantine and self-isolation. Spending more time together has made for deeper connection, planning out date nights and making pleasure a priority. With their play partners, it’s been crucial to keep digital modalities flowing to stay connected! You can still have so much fun from home. Building anticipation, sending photos, and sexting… while we all prefer to date openly, taking time to seduce your potential and current partner(s) are useful, learned skills, especially while we all cope with isolation.

Brian and Brenna explain how they keep it safe when it comes to vetting, meeting and playing with new potential sex partners. They provide tips for other couples who are interested in hotwifing and swinging and other types of ethically non-monogamous relationships.

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Lexi Sylver

Lexi Sylver is the Montreal-based erotica author of Mating Season and All the Queen’s Men. She enjoys having a kinky and unconventional lifestyle and sharing her stories and experiences with others. Lexi hosts and produces SDC.com’s sexuality podcast, Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver. As an entrepreneur, advocate, educator, public speaker and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she journeys the world to attend travel events and conferences. She regularly contributes articles about sexuality and relationships to Pornhub’s Sexual Wellness Center, ASN Lifestyle Magazine, SDC.com and her personal blog. As the Media Director for SDC.com, the world’s largest adult sex education and swingers dating platform, Lexi collaborates with sexuality, health and relationship experts to provide reliable resources for those who seek it. In her work as an advocate, educator and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she travels frequently to conferences and speaks publicly at events like The Montreal Taboo Sex Show (Le Salon de l’Amour et de la Séduction). Lexi wrote and creatively produced many movies, series and scenes in the adult entertainment industry and was nominated in 2017 for an AVN award for Best Screenplay. She is a published erotic author with her new book, a collection of erotic short stories called Mating Season, now available. Her mission is to promote empowerment and education by guiding you to shamelessly explore your Lexuality!

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