Sex Advice, Sex Positions

The Upside-Down Double-Oh! Sixty-Nine

July 26, 2009

More sex position inspiration to get you and your partner to feel feisty tonight…

Wine Dine and Sixty-Nine: Try the Double Oh! Sixty Nine Sex Position by Lexi Sylver

What It Is: A variation of 69 for ladies & gents with a little more authority from the  man on top.

How to do it:
She lies down on her back on the bed, with her head hanging down off the side.  You stand at the edge of the bed and connect your prime rib with her mouth, while leaning over her body to yodel in her canyon.  Make sure you secure at least one of her thighs with your arm to prevent her from sliding too far off the edge of the bed.  She should be gripping onto your thighs for support.  Clearly, height differences play a factor, so adjust as needed, such as putting a pillow under her bum, or sliding a little more over her to get more height.

Why it’s hot:
Sixty-nine is fun but repetitive if it’s always girl-on-top.  In this position, you can even thrust yourself into her mouth– obviously with warning first, or you’ll awake her gag reflex.  If she can’t take it in too deep, then move slowly and in shallow thrusts while she uses her tongue around your member.  Work her with your free hand and lips, raising her hips up to meet your mouth when things gets really intense.  Don’t neglect her breasts either, as they’ll be properly exposed for your fondling.

How to kink it up:
This 69 enables more creativity, because certain areas are accessible that may not be when one person is lying down completely on the bed.  She can reach your perineum (that sweet spot right between your balls and your anus), push it lightly and/or rubbing it in circles, or just tugging on your package.  If she’s able, this can also be a great position for deep-throating while you do all the necessary hip work so she can focus on keeping her throat open and gag reflex tamed.  PLUS you can find many ways to stimulate her while she’s lying down, spread open for you.  Use both your fingers and your mouth to pleasure her, but you can also bring in some fun toys of hers, since you’ll have a great angle to use them to stimulate her G-spot while working her clit.  IF you opt to make this a bondage situation where she is submissive, don’t forget to support her even more to avoid her falling off the bed, since her hands will be tied above her head.

What do you think of this sex position? Do you have any tips or suggestions? Comment here below, on my Facebook page, Twitter, YouTube or Pinterest!

Stay tuned for more erotic indulgences,


Lexi Sylver

Lexi Sylver is the Montreal-based erotica author of Mating Season and All the Queen’s Men. She enjoys having a kinky and unconventional lifestyle and sharing her stories and experiences with others. Lexi hosts and produces’s sexuality podcast, Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver. As an entrepreneur, advocate, educator, public speaker and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she journeys the world to attend travel events and conferences. She regularly contributes articles about sexuality and relationships to Pornhub’s Sexual Wellness Center, ASN Lifestyle Magazine, and her personal blog. As the Media Director for, the world’s largest adult sex education and swingers dating platform, Lexi collaborates with sexuality, health and relationship experts to provide reliable resources for those who seek it. In her work as an advocate, educator and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she travels frequently to conferences and speaks publicly at events like The Montreal Taboo Sex Show (Le Salon de l’Amour et de la Séduction). Lexi wrote and creatively produced many movies, series and scenes in the adult entertainment industry and was nominated in 2017 for an AVN award for Best Screenplay. She is a published erotic author with her new book, a collection of erotic short stories called Mating Season, now available. Her mission is to promote empowerment and education by guiding you to shamelessly explore your Lexuality!


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