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The Art of Sensual Impact Play: From Consent to After Care

February 7, 2019
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Welcome back to my playground, my feisty fiends, fetishists, kinksters and pervs.

(Because if you’re not some kind of perv, what are you even doing here?!)

Tonight’s episode is one of my favorites. Yeah, I’m probably biased…

I first met King Heff at the Sex Down South Conference 2018 in Atlanta late last year, and one of my first memories of him was watching him flog someone. It was so well done, it was no surprise that there was a line of women waiting for their turn. Clearly, he knew exactly what he was doing.

So when I was thinking of doing another episode about kink and BDSM, since I haven’t done one yet after my amazing episode with Sunny Megatron, I thought of him right away.

I do get a bit personal too about my own techniques and my way of thinking about BDSM, so if you’re curious about what it’s like to be in the brain of a genuine Switch (someone who can be both dominant and submissive), then you should listen to tonight’s episode.

King Heff and The Art of Sensual Impact Play with Lexi Sylver SDC Podcast | The Sexy Lifestyle Network on Voice America

Here are some of the questions we’re going to explore together and give you some of the answers you’ve been seeking:

Thinking of experimenting with some BDSM but don’t know where to start?

Are you a more seasoned fetish player in search of some new techniques to try on your submissive?

If you’re looking to explore the more sensual side of BDSM, and learn how you can get out your own kinks, join me today with King Heff, a sexual enhancement product specialist from Charlotte, North Carolina, also known as the creator of Pink Heffs and Black Heffs and an expert in the art of sensual impact play.

King Heff is going to reveal what to do when we’re first getting started with a new submissive, how to communicate and establish consent, how to manage different elements of a BDSM scene, as well as some physical and psychological domination and obedience training techniques you can try on your submissive.

We’ll also discuss behavior correction, how to select the right BDSM toys and tools to use on your partner, and the importance of after care with your submissive.

So listen here tonight at 8 PM EST / 5 PM PST for your dose of kinky sex talk with me and King Heff on The Sexy Lifestyle Network, powered by Voice America.

If you missed tonight’s episode, or want to catch up on my podcast, you can listen to episodes on demand on my Voice America channel and via: iHeartRadio
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Until next time, Stay Lexual and connect with me on Instagram, OnlyFans, Twitter and Facebookwhere you can get all of my most recent updates, down to the dirtiest little detail!


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Lexi Sylver

Lexi Sylver is the Montreal-based erotica author of Mating Season and All the Queen’s Men. She enjoys having a kinky and unconventional lifestyle and sharing her stories and experiences with others. Lexi hosts and produces SDC.com’s sexuality podcast, Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver. As an entrepreneur, advocate, educator, public speaker and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she journeys the world to attend travel events and conferences. She regularly contributes articles about sexuality and relationships to Pornhub’s Sexual Wellness Center, ASN Lifestyle Magazine, SDC.com and her personal blog. As the Media Director for SDC.com, the world’s largest adult sex education and swingers dating platform, Lexi collaborates with sexuality, health and relationship experts to provide reliable resources for those who seek it. In her work as an advocate, educator and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she travels frequently to conferences and speaks publicly at events like The Montreal Taboo Sex Show (Le Salon de l’Amour et de la Séduction). Lexi wrote and creatively produced many movies, series and scenes in the adult entertainment industry and was nominated in 2017 for an AVN award for Best Screenplay. She is a published erotic author with her new book, a collection of erotic short stories called Mating Season, now available. Her mission is to promote empowerment and education by guiding you to shamelessly explore your Lexuality!


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