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How to Be a Hotwife

June 13, 2019
How to Be a Hotwife | Front Porch Swingers | Lexi Sylver SDC Sex Podcast

Welcome back to my playground, Lexual friends and fiends.

What’s one of the most popular search terms when it comes to sexuality?

That’s right. “Hotwifing” and “hotwife” are more popular than ever before… but are these terms truly understood by the people who are searching for them?

So what exactly does it mean to be a hotwife? And how is it different from cuckolding?

There are a lot of misinformed folks who think cuckolding is synonymous with hotwifing, but Brenna and Brian are happy to teach us how to distinguish between them.

My first chat with Brenna and Brian of the podcast Front Porch Swingers went into some depth about cuckolding.

Listen to Hotwives, Cuckolds and Kinks: Popular Taboos Explained.

That previous episode might help prep you for tonight’s edition with this sexy hotwifing duo! Think of it as a perfect part 2 to our first conversation!

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Some of the questions that Brenna and Brian will be answering include:

  • What’s the difference between hotwifing and cuckolding?
  • How do the dynamics of a hotwife and stag relationship differ from other types of monogamous and non-monogamous relationships?
  • What’s the best way to recruit new playmates to join in on your hotwife dynamic?
  • How do you communicate with your partner and potential partners about your interests, boundaries and kinks?
  • What are some of features of a hotwifing relationship that can be applied to any relationship for partners who want to keep their desire alive?
  • What are some of the lessons they learned while getting started with their hotwifing relationship?
  • What advice is there for couples or individuals who are seeking to explore hotwifing for the first time?

Hear all the answers to these questions and many more when you tune in tonight!

Listen in at 8 PM Eastern on The Sexy Lifestyle Network via Voice America.

If you missed tonight’s episode, or want to catch up on my podcast, you can listen to episodes on demand on my Voice America channel and via: iHeartRadio
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Until next time, Stay Lexual and connect with me on Instagram, OnlyFans, Twitter and Facebookwhere you can get all of my most recent updates, down to the dirtiest little detail!


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Lexi Sylver

Lexi Sylver is the Montreal-based erotica author of Mating Season and All the Queen’s Men. She enjoys having a kinky and unconventional lifestyle and sharing her stories and experiences with others. Lexi hosts and produces SDC.com’s sexuality podcast, Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver. As an entrepreneur, advocate, educator, public speaker and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she journeys the world to attend travel events and conferences. She regularly contributes articles about sexuality and relationships to Pornhub’s Sexual Wellness Center, ASN Lifestyle Magazine, SDC.com and her personal blog. As the Media Director for SDC.com, the world’s largest adult sex education and swingers dating platform, Lexi collaborates with sexuality, health and relationship experts to provide reliable resources for those who seek it. In her work as an advocate, educator and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she travels frequently to conferences and speaks publicly at events like The Montreal Taboo Sex Show (Le Salon de l’Amour et de la Séduction). Lexi wrote and creatively produced many movies, series and scenes in the adult entertainment industry and was nominated in 2017 for an AVN award for Best Screenplay. She is a published erotic author with her new book, a collection of erotic short stories called Mating Season, now available. Her mission is to promote empowerment and education by guiding you to shamelessly explore your Lexuality!


  1. Rohan Kay

    June 5, 2020 at 11:17 am Reply

    Very interesting

    1. Lexi Sylver

      July 13, 2020 at 7:52 pm Reply

      Thanks, Rohan! 🙂

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